If you only think you're gay because you enjoy looking at gay porn then chances are you're really not and are just simply bi-curious, as most people are at some point during their teenage years.

Also, it's normal to be jealous of other guys, almost everyone experiences jealousy/envy of other people all the time so it's nothing to worry about, and if you think you're straight but don't want to get back into the whole jealousy thing, then don't worry about it, everyone feels jealous, you're human.

Posted at 2:16 am on May 4, 2008

Looking at gay porn doesn't automatically make you gay. You might not even be bisexual, just someone who is curious about the opposite sex. It sounds like you need to boost your confidence and self-esteem. Every guy gets rejected, it's normal. Girls get rejected too - if people were successful everytime they asked someone out, well, this world wouldn't be what it is.

Maybe you need to relax and try not to go after girls all the time. Relax around them and become their friends first, don't just approach them with the idea of dating them. That can easily cause problems, so I wouldn't advise it. Just take stuff slow and steady :)

Posted at 1:30 pm on May 3, 2008