As well, you said himself, he doesn't know you.  Most people don't appreciate someone that they don't know being able to text them.  And many people just can't be interested in someone that they know well.  So for now, it's best to just let him go.  Try and turn your attention to other things for now to keep you distracted, such as studying for your GCSEs.  And just give yourself time.

I know you don't want to give him up, but he messaged you with a request to stop messaging him as you currently are.  Maybe in the future, when he gets a chance to know you in person, things will work out.  But for now, he seems uninterested.  Maybe he doesn't have time to persue a relationship (especially if he has his own set of tests to take care of), or maybe he has his eyes currently set on someone else.  Whatever the reason, he has requested that you stop, and I strongly suggest you respect that request.  If you continue to do so, it will only put you in a bad light in his eyes.

As for not eating or drinking.  I know it's hard when you're depressed, especially with so much stress going on (with your GCSEs and all).  But eating a proper meal can really help you feel better.  If you can't eat large meals, then try to eat several smaller meals throughout the day.  You're doing your body no favors by not giving it the nutrients you need.  So try and eat several small meals, if that makes it easier for you.  Snack on veggies through out the day, or eat a small bowl of something and come back and eat something small an hour later.  You may not feel hungry, but your body ~will~ appreciate the food.

And also, another thing that might help you is exercise.  It can help you relieve the stress, and just make your mind clearer and happier with yourself.  I know many people that find that exercise helps them cope :).  Good luck, alright?  I hope it all works out for you :).  Who knows, maybe your sights have been so focused on this one boy, that you're overlooking someone that's much better for you :).  Best of luck!

Posted at 3:00 pm on May 3, 2008

I know this not what you want to hear but you need to move on. There is no point trying to get someone to like you because to be honest i think you have more important things coming up like your exams which is going to shape your life not some crush. I know it is harsh but if he does not like you back then there is not much you can do about it.

I can see where he is coming from the on the behalf of the text, I'm sure you would not appreciate a strange person texting you, right? Maybe he is just stressed and lashed out, perhaps he has his exams coming up too, yes? And you did say yourself, he does not know you so maybe thats why he behaved like that. He has told you want he thinks, maybe you should  just accept it and move on. I know it is easier said than done. But you will get over him in time.

You are not eating which is probably contributing to your depression. I'm sure it making you feel run down and out of energy. You might feel better if you had a balanced intake of vitamins and the right food groups etc.

Give it a little time, especially wait until you have finished your exams, concentrate on one thing and right now that should be without a doubt your exams. Who knows in time he may come round to liking you, perhaps get to know him more. But i don't think he is worth your time to be honest. He was not very nice to you, do you really want to go out with him?

I hope i have helped, good luck, Pm if you want (if you do join up of course) :)

Posted at 1:01 pm on May 3, 2008