I'm not saying this is a final goodbye. Yet until the couple are able to be stable together, you should not barge in. If in time they do split, then by no means don't barge in yet. Let the father decide..

Good Luck.

Posted at 4:57 pm on May 6, 2008

At the end of the day it is up to you about this situation. I know you are probably not going to want to hear this but i think you should accept his choice and move on.

Your ex has child now, to be honest he has different priorities with his child. I don't think you should try and get back with him mainly due to the sake of the baby. You would not want to break the pair of them up. It would not be fair on his girlfriend or the baby.

Speak to your ex about what the future may hold, because it is down to him. If he likes you then good for you,but bearing in mind he would have to stick by his child would you be willing for him to be like that? He would have to what is right by the child.

Maybe the two of you broke up for a reason, i know it seems hard but there are other people out there, who maybe more right for you. Trust me he will come along eventually.

Good Luck!

Posted at 4:53 pm on May 6, 2008

Although what I am about to say is probably not what you're going to want to hear, I think it's best that I say it anyway.  To be honest, when two people have a baby together, it is very significant.  It wouldn't be right of you to break up a couple who had a baby together.  However, talk to your ex-boyfriend and see what he has to say.  Does he love you?  Does he love the mother of his child?  Who does he want to be with?  He ultimately has to choose between you and her.  I don't suggest trying to "fight" for him.  They have a baby together.  You should allow him to make his own decisions and you should respect them.  Trust me, there will be plenty of other guys out there.  Just let him be, and let whatever happens happen.

PM me if you need anything else.

Posted at 4:43 pm on May 6, 2008