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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 5:09 pm on May 6, 2008 Return to Inbox
Subject: a girl
I really really really like this girl. Ive been friends with her for a long time and know pretty much everything about her. Last week I finally had the nerve to ask her out and she said yes. Ive talked to her about it and she is excited to go. But on her facebook page it says that she has a huge crush on someone over and over again. I asked her about and she said ya and it was kind of an awkward situation so I changed the topic but I know that its not me and Im pretty sure she likes him better. I really really like her.

more than Ive ever liked anyone else in my life. What can I do?
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Hey there,

I know this is not a nice situation to be in at all, but i think you need to talk to your girlfriend about this as soon as possible. When you talk to her just be as honest as possible with her. This way you will find out exactly how she feels about you then you can plan on what your going to do about it.

How do you know that you are not the person she has a huge crush on? Perhaps you should just ask her to find out, you will never know unless you ask her. You never know you may be that person. Sometimes face book is not always reliable that could have been from a long time ago and maybe had not been updated in a while. She surely would not have gone out with you, unless she had some feelings for you. You even said yourself that she seemed excited to go out with you, that seems like a good start.

I know you like her alot, but if things don't work out in your favour that is better than being strung along. You say you two get on really well. You could still stay friends but you have to accept that may know be going out with each other, It is better to stay friends than have nothing at all, right? You never know what could happen in the future, there could be a potential relationship. If it does not work out you will have to respect her decision. Least if she tells you now then it would not hurt as much as it would if you where going out for months. But to find this out you need to have a word with her.

Good Luck!

Posted at 2:30 am on May 7, 2008

Hello,

I truly know how you feel considering I've been in your situation numerous times and I know many people who've been in your situation as well.  Trust me, I know it's not a fun position to be in.  The best advice I can give you is to talk to her.  You should seriously talk to her and be completely honest with her.  This is the only way to truly find out her feelings for you.  Don't assume that she likes the other guy better because she may like you better!  You don't know for sure, which is why I think you should confront her and ask her - that's the only way to know 100%.  I know you like her alot, but you have to respect the decision she makes, whether it is to be with you, with him or single.  You don't want to ruin a great friendship over a potential relationship - however you do have to find out how she feels about you because it's really important.

Best of luck!

PM me if you need anything else!

Posted at 6:03 pm on May 6, 2008

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