It's nice that your friends are looking out for you however remember that you should talk to him like a normal person and try and make your own judgements on the person he is and what he is actually like.

If you want to go out with him make sure you are sure it's what you want and that you are making the right decision for yourself because sometimes we have to think about things. Unless you want to take the risk and take the chance and go with the flow you never know you could end up happy.

One thing you have to remember in life we have one chance to live it so why not do things and try different things and see where it leads us to and we do learn from our past mistakes.

Your friends are just showing that they want you to know what he's like however they could be rumours so you have to make your own judgements as to whether or not you decide listen to what they have said, or whether you give yourself the chance to really get to know him and make your own judgement.

Posted at 9:56 am on May 7, 2008

It's hard to advise without knowing what the situation is, but first of all you need to somehow find out for sure if this allegation is true, which shouldn't be too hard to do as if it is true then if it's that bad then people are bound to know about it. I personally recommend asking him about it.

If it IS true, you need to think about whether you like him enough to oversee whatever it is he's done, and if you don't think you can then it's probably best just to remain friends. But remember, people can change and maybe whatever has happened in this boy's past won't reoccur in his future.

Good luck,
Amelle.

Posted at 9:55 am on May 7, 2008