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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 8:34 am on May 12, 2008 Return to Inbox
Subject: i think i might have adhd
hi im wandering if you can help me I think I have adhd I already on a behavour course at school every wed moring but I don't want to tell my parents I think I have it so im wandering if I went to the doctors  would they have to inform my mum and dad or could it be private and confordetinal and can they give me summing for it whith out my mum dad knowing.
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If you go to a doctor then they can't legally keep anything confidential form your guardians until you are no longer a minor as far as I know.

Why are you afraid of your parents finding  out you have ADHD? It certainly is something your doctor might be able to help with as you may be able to get some medication for it that can help you improve your feelings and behaviour. There's nothing to be ashamed of in having a disorder of any kind - why would your parents be unhappy with you?

There are other things that can help ADHD. You say you're already on a behaviour course at school? You might be able to get a better course through your doctor with a trained counsellor that could help you. Also there are dietary changes that can really make a difference when it comes to ADHD - such as removing as many artificial additives as you can.

This really is something you should discuss with your doctor because I am sure that he can provide you with more comprehensive help than your school alone can.

Are you worried because your behaviour at school has caused you to get into trouble - hence the course you are on? And you don't want your parents to find out?

If that's the case then what about getting a teacher to talk to them first and explain that you aren't in trouble but you have a condition that you need to see the doctor about? I'm sure if you got a teacher who understands to explain it to them for you then they would have to take more notice and understand that you need help.

Please try and do that and try to have the courage to let your parents know what is going on so that you can get the help your doctor can undoubtedly provide - you have a lot to gain here and I think it really is worth it.

Posted at 3:56 pm on May 13, 2008

Why would you be afraid to tell your parents?  There's no reason to hide it from them.

About the doctor, chances are that you cannot go to the doctor without your parents finding out.  I'm quite sure that you won't be able to buy your medication without your parents.  I'm fairly certain they don't give out amphetamines to teenagers without their parents consent.

If you think you have this disorder, your parents need to know about it.  Whatever is preventing you from letting them know, set it aside.  They need to be involved in major issues with your health.  Let them know.

Posted at 9:00 am on May 12, 2008

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