So, if I understand right, you and a friend like this guy. But he likes you back, even though he knows you like him. And he doesn't like your friend. You sound like a pretty nice and concerned girl, but this only makes sense for you to still go with this guy. You two are interested in one another, and although it might suck for the other girl, she will have to find someone else. Not going out with him because she likes him won't change a thing, because he doesn't like her back anyways.

Once you two start going with you two, I don't think he will like your other friend even a little any more. If he has you, he doesn't need to focus on other girls and could lose any love-like feelings with her without really trying.

You deserve to go out with him, and so the other girl will have to figure things out with someone else, because he doesn't like her, he likes you!

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Posted at 6:17 pm on Nov. 8, 2009

One thing you have to keep clear in your head, is that this guy likes YOU. Not your friend, not someone else, YOU. So your friend should not get mad if the two of you start to date, because as she knows(or she should by know) he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with her. So have a talk with her about that, but dont let it stand in your way. You might just end up regretting not seeing how it went with him, yknow? Just be upfront and honest, and things should go well if you handle it well. Just dont lie, that could make things worse later on.

Let her know you're there for her, but you do want a relationship with him. If you two really are decent friends, you should be able to work this out by having a nice, serious talk with eachother.

Posted at 11:38 pm on Nov. 7, 2009

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Talk to your friend about him and tell your friend how you like him also, Try to do it in a way that your friend won't get offended.
Once use both admit that use both like him maybe it will be easier to talk to her about it?
Ask her how she would feel if you were to date him, If she is okay with it then you should go ahead with it and date him.
If she isn't okay with it than the best thing you can do is try and make her okay with it,
If she isn't okay with it and you can't make her okay with it then all you can really do is decide what you would rather have,
A friendship with your friend or a relationship with the guy. Maybe you could tell the guy about your situation, He could maybe help you out with it.
I don't think your other friend (the one that he used to like) would matter in this situation,
As long as she doesn't know or isn't really interested in him she shouldn't have a problem with you dating him.
It is a very confusing situation and the best outcome you could have is that all of your friends don't have a problem with you dating him and you decide to date him.
If that doesn't happen you will have to make the decision on what you value more, Your friendship with your friends or your relationship with this guy.
Good Luck

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