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From: (Not Displayed) Received: 5:56 am on Nov. 11, 2007 Return to Inbox
Subject: I BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND FOR 2 YEARS BUT, HE IS 19 AND IM 15 WUT SHOULD I DO?
i've been in a relationship 4 2 yrs and im 15 and he 19 and I luv him so very much dat it kills me inside and I really don't knw wat 2 do and he been cheatin on me wit this girl named Keisha dat stay in Chicago and We live in Pine Bluff and he met her off da chatline and i've been cheatin and he says his heart says stay wit me and his mind says stay wit her and mah heart says stay wit him and my mind says leave him and b wit this other dude I like but, I luv my boyfriend what should I do?
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Hey,

first of all, howdy fellow Arkansan, i live in searcy!

second of all, it sounds to me like the answer is clear, you just dont want to hear it.

i am going to ask you a series of questions, and if you look at them and answer them it might help.

1) what do you want to happen in this situation?
2) what are you doing to get what you want?
3) how are you feeling right now?
4) how much longer can you tolerate the present situation?
5) what are you going to do to change it?

just go through and answer those questions, thinking about what you want happen, and why.

good luck and God bless

barnabas

Posted at 6:29 am on Nov. 12, 2007

Hey there, you probably won't like what I'm about to say, but I personally think that it will be fore the best if you and your boyfriend break up and decided to call the relationship a day.

You say that he's been cheating, on top of that you've been cheating as well and that's by no means the a good basis for a relationship. You're still young and 2 years is a big relationship for a person of your age. All of your friends are probably out having fun while you are with your boyfriend, which could have been the reason as to why you cheated.

I personally believe that for a person to cheat then there has to be problems within the relationship. If you truly loved him, or were truly happy with him then you wouldn't have cheated on him, and the same goes for him.

Try sitting down with your boyfriend and really talking it through, open up and talk about your feelings and what you want. On top of that you really need to try and make your mind up on what you want. Ask your self questions like 'Do you think your relationship can last after what has happened?' Or 'Is this relationship really what you want?'. It suggests to me that you want to experience other relationships, if you like this guy, then you can't be 100% happy with your boyfriend, but that is something you need to think about.

I can't tell you who to date, or what to do, only you can do that. The choice is yours, just give it some thought and talk about it. If you have any more problems feel free to message me at anytime.
Take care and good luck sorting out this situation.

- Fairy 89

Posted at 2:37 am on Nov. 12, 2007

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