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CRASHING SUICIDE
what do i do now, please help...
Replies: 14Last Post Oct. 23, 2006 7:23pm by rufoo
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( kamea )


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What do you do when everything is just crashing down on you and you can't take anymore of whats going on... I'm in the situation where no one in my family trusts me anymore. My parents and all other adults in the family or house that i live in think i'm stealing their money or their perscription medicine. None of these accusations are actually correct. Everything else in my life is horrible. I'm Bi and hiding it from my family and since a big part of my life i feel like my parents don't really know me. It's all to much and suicide is an option that has run through my mind more than a few times, PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

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9:33 am on Oct. 2, 2006 | Joined April 2006 | 56 Days Active
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strz


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dont commit suicide if u want to change ur life change it slowly come out to ur parents andtry to be happy change ur perspective u will be happier

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Blackadder


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i have had several arguements with the mods about promoting suicide, but the bastards will ban me for "helping" you out.


...so, Instead, I'll have to suggest something else.


1) If people think your stealing, do your best to prove your inoccence.

you'll just have to come up with something to make them belive you.

...perhaps if you know who is taking it, you can do something....

2)

If your "BI" i don't see any problem --- just only take the guys back home.


3) most, if not all problems can be resolved -- therefore, if you stick it out things may just improve -- if they don't, well, [insert suicide joke*]

*trying hard not to get my arse banned here....

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lilgordo1872


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Dont commit suicide. Dont worry in time your parents will trust you. Just make sure that you do what they ask and try not to do anything wrong. Like do everything your told. Also earn your parents trust back. Do stuff around the house without them telling you to do it. Things like that always make parents happy when their kids do stuff that show that they are maturing and acting like an adult. Dont commit suicide, the only thing that would achieve is make your entire family and friends sad by their loss. Its not an option. Theres many suicide help sites that you can go to. Just look them up on google. And on the topic of you being bi. You dont have to tell your parents at least not yet. Wait until you get their trust back to tell them. Sit them down and tell them like an adult about your decision and that you like the way you are and you wont change. Tell them how long you have been, and anything else they ask, be truthful dont lie. Thats all the help i could give you i hope its been useful. PM me if you need anyone to talk to or anymore help. Seriously dont commit suicide. Your family loves you.

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LilCherryChick17


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Quote: from strz at 12:35 pm on Oct. 2, 2006

dont commit suicide if u want to change ur life change it slowly come out to ur parents andtry to be happy change ur perspective u will be happier


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AmesD


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Speak to someone, let them know how you are feeling and tell them how they could help you

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LucifersAngel


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Why don't u try deliberately showing them that you're not stealing - like if you see money on the floor or something go and tell them u found it and ask who's it is - could work

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ilovecookies

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I'm in very much the same position. While I do think about it, I don't think you should do it. I think you should keep in mind that some people have it much worse off, so don't make any stupid decisions.



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underNEATHtheskin


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i too am in a similar position...my parents not only dont trust me...but they dont seem to care much about me...im not gunna go into detail bcuz im trying to help you...not whine about myself...but yeh suicide has crossed my mind once...but it was just a small instance...i just thought about the people who really do care about me...and the people that i love so much..people that i wanted to see again or go to the mall with again...or just something fun...that helped me with that...and about the stealing thing...speak up for yourself...mention that you didnt do it...and if you think you have an idea of who HAS been stealing things...let them know what you think...and if they still dont belive you...then just try to gain their trust back...by doing things that have them trust you...and about being bi...tell your parents now...and tell them that you would really appretiate it if they backed you up on it...and accepted you for who you are...then maybe they will trust you more...and realize that for you to come out and say the truth is very responsible...maybe that will also help with the stealing problem too. if none of these help...welll sorry i tried...but just dont give up. nobody deserves to give up on their selves...

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xcutioners


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I think you should do martial arts...

Before I joined the martial arts team, I was always picked on, mocked, laughed at, belittled etc. I was the "look-out" slave for smokers...

After, I decided to do martial arts.. nowdays, not alot of people dare to touch me because I know how to strike...

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InsaneBlue


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I actually suggest you take a nice long trip to summer camp, or anywhere away from your family, don't let your whole life be clouded by what happens at home, remember the good things.

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( kamea )


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Well thank you everyone who has replied but in this case all this has been truthfully hopeless they think thati'm just tryingto cover up for something that they think i did by sucking up and being a good girl now and as for the bi thing i can't find a way to tell them, my older cousin is gay and has a girlfriend even though myfamily defenitly loves her they still talk about how ashamed they are and i jut here the stuff they say about her and it totaly breaks my heart...

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xcutioners


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How about talking to people on the phone... like me?

I talk to alot of strangers on the phone... =X

if you want to do it, just.. send me a PM

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xxlifesucksxx


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NEVER ever ever ever commit suicide. I know it might seem like the right thing to do at the time, like everything's falling aparts and theres like no way things can get better, but believe me, they can. I've been in some rly fucked up situations and i've tried before.. but after the fact i regretted it SO freaking much.. think of everything that you'd lose.. yer family, friends.. Just explain to your family that you're bi.. they should accept you for who you are.. and you shouldnt care that much about their personal opinions either.. don't let them get to you.
if you need anything you kan PM me

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rufoo


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People Lived through worst situations than this. Being bi doesnt really change anything. It doesnt matter. Im sure your parents will accept who you are if you are bi or not. BEcause they love you. now if they dont trust you, thats a big thing. Any reason why they dont trust you wether you stole or not, You gotta make it up. No matter what. Prove to them , that you diddnt steal it ...

Talk to friends about it. Because that what friends are for. And I gueess everyone who replied came to support you. We are you're friends (at least some of us.. others are just asswipes when it comes to this and think its funny..)

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