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ok i need advice...

Replies: 9 — Last Post Nov. 12, 2006 11:20am by some chick

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( some chick )

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i have this awesome boyfriend, hes cute, sweet caring, gets along with my parents and spends as much time as he can with me. the problem you ask? on fri. i went to my bff's birthday party and met the cutest funnest most exciting girl i've ever met. we hit it off right away, and now i think about her as often as my boyfriend. what do i do? do i ditch a almost four month relationship for a chick i barely know? or stick it out with my man and see where things go with the girl? i have no idea? and i've been told shes interested too... i just have no idea what to do!!!!

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northstar

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Wow...um stick with your current boyfriend. That would be so rude to just dump your boyfriend of four months for someone you just met.

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THEWHOISGR8

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Never dump a love for a crush, my dear, common sense is rather useful

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anarchy89

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you bi? coz if not i'm :-s! well do what you feel is right, would you rather a female relationship than what you have with your man?

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( some chick )

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o and yes, i am bi and thats where its gets confusing, im sure wether i'd rather be with a girl or a guy, right now, i wouldnt even dream of leaving my man for another guy, but this chick totally turned my head

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anniepie7727

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if what you got an't bad then keep it

stick with him get t know her better then if you think things could be better with her take it to her

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wolverineh8ter

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It's an age old question, isn't it? �Do you seem shallow to dump one for another, or do you stay with the person you have been with?

My advice to you is that you stay with your Boyfriend for now, and see what happens with your new "special friend." �A lot of times when something is new and exiting, it seems like you want it more. �You really need to wait to end your relationship with him when you know for a fact that you want to be with her. �You could dump your boyfriend and find out that you really don't like this girl that way, and that it was just lust, or something.

Talk to your boyfriend about it, and be vocal. I think that honesty is one of the best qualities in regards to a relationship. Who knows, maybe he would even entertain the motion of a threesome every once in a while.

Post edited at 11:10 am on Nov. 12, 2006 by wolverineh8ter

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knicole

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I personally would stick it out with your boyfriend for now.
You just met her, so for all you know, you could really not get along at all. You could get to know her more, and realize that she's fun and exciting but not what you're looking for.
It depends if you think it's worth taking that risk really, and giving the girl a try, but keep in mind that things may not work out with the two of you, and it will have been for nothing.

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Quote: from northstar at 10:59 am on Nov. 12, 2006

Wow...um stick with your current boyfriend. That would be so rude to just dump your boyfriend of four months for someone you just met.
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Seriously,Why are you so interested in her? She got piercings or something?

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Quote: from SheMintsEclectic at 11:16 am on Nov. 12, 2006

Quote: from northstar at 10:59 am on Nov. 12, 2006
Wow...um stick with your current boyfriend. That would be so rude to just dump your boyfriend of four months for someone you just met.
N*

Seriously,Why are you so interested in her? She got piercings or something?

no shes fun, shes smiley, so energetic, full of life, and just, completely awesome. and so herself! :D

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