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missfabulous
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If you are okay with putting college off for a while, then go ahead and have the baby. But like you mentioned you are not financially ready. It may be a hard decision but do what's best for you. I would like to get married before my grandma passes away but if i'm not ready to then im not going to force myself. Do what you feel is best for you.
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rock85cool
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I can understand the pressures of wanting or/and feeling you should have a child but If you don't think you are ready for one then it's probably best not to have one. Don't feel bad if you can't have a child at the moment, I'm sure even if they pass on they'll be happy for you. Waiting would give you a better foundation for your child and your family as a whole but in the end it's what you and your fiance decide.
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oubipaws
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Follow your heart, thats always the best idea for these situations...things will work out and follow through whatever plan you follow :)
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My heart is going in different directions!!! I never thought deciding to have a baby or not would be so hard. If i am, I have no idea what i will do.
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dunebug
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It seems like you already know the answer to that question. You just want to please everyone. Unfortunately that is the absolute last reason you should have a baby. You need to have a baby because you want one, know you can handle one, afford one, etc. Not just because you want to get it in there before someone passes away or because someone else wants you to. They aren't the ones who are going to be paying for it, looking after it are they? ;-) My advice to you, wait. I'm a 21 year old mother of a 2 year old. I cannot possibly imagine the load you have on you right now plus a baby. Right now I'm in school part-time and that's enough. My friend JJ is in college fulltime and she's exhausted and doesn't see much of her son. My friend K is also in college full-time and barely sees her daughter and is stressed and exhausted. I guess I'd put it to you this way. Think of the courseload you have right now. Now double it. Could you handle that? That's what a baby will be like.
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