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Time Healing the Wounds?
Does Time Heal All Wounds?
Replies: 7Last Post Feb. 6, 2007 8:11pm by ivbob2
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Hey everyone.  My best friend and I find ourselves constantly arguing.  He betrayed my trust a year ago and I have since forgiven him.  We used to talk every day on the phone and hang out constantly.  Now that he's back from college, we really don't talk as much.  He wants to be alone all of the time and whenever I ask him to come over or to talk on the phone, he is distant.  He seems to be making time for other people all the time now.  Don't get me wrong, everyone should have other friends but I feel like I lost my best friend cause we are so distant now.  I don't understanding what happened.  I stick up for myself and ask why he doesn't come around anymore and doesn't talk to me about anything anymore.  He ends up getting very angry and saying hateful things to me.  It really hurts my feelings cause I'm a really sensitive person.  I am trying to mend the friendship but I don't know what to do.  He says that we need time away from speaking or hanging out for awhile because he's so angry with me for asking me those questions.  What he did to me in the past was really deceitful but I forgave and let it go.  I think there may be trust issues still lingering as to why I am questioning why he doesn't come around.  I don't know what to do.  It's a hurtful situation and has been going on for awhile.  My best friend just doesn't take the time anymore and does for everyone else.  He told another friend of his that we aren't best friends anymore because I keep asking him why he's distant and why he doesn't call or want to hang out with me.  Any one out there have an opinion on this?  What should I do?  

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you should do what you think is best

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time dosen't completly heal all wounds but I know for sure that it does help with the pain frmo the wounds...


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Talk to him about it.

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um what exactly did he do?

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think about it and do what you think is best for you

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He called me gay behind my back to another friend and denied it to me for a long time.  

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i had a similar situation, my best friend for like 4 years, we hung out everyday, talked on the phone everyday, everything together. the last few months we were friends, he became distinst getting ready for college, and got made when i got a boyfriend. then when someone told him i said something about him, this thing was something that he knew i would never say, he knew me that well. but he let it mess our relationships up, its been like 3 years, and i avoid talking with him if i can, because he became someone else.  he never asked for forgiveness, and knew we would never be the same, he stoped trying and me it just keeps me from hurting if i dont talk with him.  i dont know if this helps and sorry if it don't everyone is different, you really have to make your own choice.

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