the worst weekend i've had in ages -- LiveWire College Forums

Friday we had a party (and by we i mean the sigma nu, the fraternity that i hang out with) and it was a good party until my boyfriend got really trashed. he kept trying to make out iwth one of my best friends, and he tried to get hsi friend to kiss me. His friend tried but I pulled away. My friend pulled away too, though my bf did manage to get his tongue in her mouth. Then he got trashed and spent the rest of the night passed out in my lap in the bathroom, sitting up periodically to puke. Saturday night, I couldn't get ahold of my bf so I went to dinner and watched some movies with another friend, and so I had my phone on silent cuz we were watching the Matrix tilogy. my bf kept calling me, and finally i got ahold of him after the movies and i told him we needed to talk . i asked him why he made out with my friend and we got in a huge fight. He told me he was trying to make me jelous cuz a friend of ours had told me earlier that if i didn't have a bf he could see himself hooking up with me, and i must have said something flirty back (I am a total flirty, and this kid and I have been flirting like crazy since the day we met, and eh is one of my best friends) my bf decided that he thought i would cheat on him, and he said the first theing that came to his head when i wasn't answering my phone that night was i was cheating on him with "that don kid from kap sig" (aka the kid i was h anging out wtih, but i was NOT cheating on my bf) i didn't tell him that our friend had tried to kiss me cuz i was afriad he wouldn't believe me that i pulled away. finally around 4 in the morning we worked things out, I still hadn't really told him hsi friend tried to kiss me. things were good the next day, he was really sweet to me and everything was OK again. i was so happy not to be fighting with him. last night the boys had their chapter meeting for their fraternity and they were voting on pledges. it was a long meeting and didn't go as well as my friends had hoped (one of the people who we really don't care for, and don't respect for various reasons gave one of our really good friends a no vote, and in order to be initiated the vote has to be unanimously yes. our friend is really upset because he is no longer a part of that fraternity for no real good reason) my bf and our friend went off to have a talk,and im not really sure what they said. but i know our friend must have told him something tot eh effect of he may or may not have made out wtih me friday night. so my bf asked me if anything happened between me and our friend, and i told him exactly what happened and he got really mad at me for not telling him earlier. he called me a lier, said i must be lying because otherwise i would have told him. he asked me if i had been cheating on him with anyone else and said he didn't trust me at all anymore and that i had repeatidly lied to him through our relationship (of about 6 months. and i never once lied to him or cheated on him) he dumped me and i was crying until about 4 in the moring. he hates me now and doesn't ever want to be my friend again. that was the worst weekend i've had in a long time.

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