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Am I the only one?
Post-sex regret
Replies: 16 — Last Post Sep. 24, 2008 9:44am by bride2B
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Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
Does anybody else feel awful after giving in to sex with some strager guy who pushed me into it?  I feel like a failure.  How do I get out of my lowness?
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The Hamburglar

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You stop being a skanky ho.
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TheUnrealSlimShady


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Keep your legs closed?
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OverTheAir


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Stop having sex with strangers perhaps?

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swedegrrl2009


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Tell yourself it was a mistake and move on. I did it once too. Don't feel bad, you got caught up in the moment, it happens.

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Quote: from TheUnrealSlimShady at 12:44 am on Feb. 17, 2007
Keep your legs closed?

That sounds like some quality advice right there. Mmhmm.

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Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
Yeah, I know you're all right.  I'm not a whore... but I do have regrets in the past that are eating me up.  My legs are closed : )
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i agree keep your legs closed.  only way to avoid it.

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Mambo di Bango


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Did he rape you or are you just denying your part in it by saying he pushed you into it.

Post edited at 6:48 pm on Feb. 18, 2007 by Mambo di Bango

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PromiseMe


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Quote: from Mambo di Bango at 6:47 pm on Feb. 18, 2007
Did he rape you or are you just denying your part in it by saying he pushed you into it?

I second that question... and no, you are not the only one.

Post edited at 5:20 am on Feb. 20, 2007 by PromiseMe

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winter rose


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Honey we all make mistakes! If he raped you then, i can understand you would feel upset.  Even if he did you are still a good and worthy person.
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defiled lotus


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I do the same thing. You let someone talk you into it mostly because they are interested and it's not like you want to have sex with them they just keep pushing it.

And eventually they hit that point, that nerve, where you just stop saying no.

Here's what to do:

Just keep saying no. Even when they hit that nerve. Don't let people take advantage of you, no matter what. I know it's hard, but seriously. Right now, you have to stop regretting it and just focus on not letting it happen again.

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divineassault


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The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.  The point I'm making is that you, being a human being with a sex drive, will probably mess up or find yourself in the situation to mess up again.  Its all good, and feeling bad is natural, but the first step to dealing with it is to admit that part of you wanted it.  not being in touch with that part of you is like emotional suicide when it comes to sex in the moment because its like newtons law or some shit...every action has an equal and opposite one.  for every bit you convince yourself that you did not want it and you shouldn't have done it because of your conditioning (biological and social), a part of you will be reminding you that you did (biological and social).  where they meet is that feeling of guilt and shame.  I'm not saying you should or should not do it...just try to get in touch more with your feelings and the problem should fix itself in the most appropiate way

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Quote: from seg at 9:43 pm on Feb. 16, 2007
Does anybody else feel awful after giving in to sex with some strager guy who pushed me into it?  I feel like a failure.  How do I get out of my lowness?


I feel like  gave into my boyfriend the first time I had sex. But i was prepaired to do it as he was living in a different city across the country and I went to go visit him.

Do you give into random strangers all the time? Cause then that I would see a little bit of a problem. But if this was random and you didnt expect it and you didnt really want it and you gave in because you didnt want him to hurt you if you said no, then your not alone. That happens alot. I think you need to be careful who you meet and who you start fooling around with to lead to sex. Be a little more smarter in your choices and stuff like that might not happen.

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Dairy Product Addict 		Reply
I'm not sure how people define rape anymore these days.  I was pressured into sex, but not physically forced into it.  It was sort of the snowball effect where he was making moves on me real fast and in my head I was thinking, "I don't want this"... and then I couldn't pull away.  So I guess that's not rape.  But I didn't like it and was too afraid to stop him because of what he'll say to me next or something.
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