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 Replies: 16 — Last Post Sep. 24, 2008 9:44am by bride2B
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Web Resources: Rape Myths Dispelled, Help & Information about Rape
USA Rape, Abuse and Incest Hotline: 1-800-656-HOPE (1-800-656-4673)
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I had been telling my boyfriend no for almost two years, and it just got more painful every time. I remember a time when I would not let him touch me sexually at all, but the pain in my heart burned from telling him no. So I gave in. We have been engaged for over a year now, and he has been trying to have me fully for some time, but I would not let him. I told him I wanted to be a virgin on our wedding day. He agreed every time I said no, but he never quit asking. <br> Oh God if I didn't give in to him not 2 days ago. In less than 2 minutes he had finished. I felt no pleasure or happiness from it, and he the love of my life. I know we are getting married any way, but I felt like trash, full of guilt and remorse. We talked last night about it and both wept and wept. I made him promise me it would not happen again. Then I made him promise me that night never happened in the first place. I have put my foot down to boldly conquer my anxiety and reclaim purity for myself. <br> Even if you have had sex 100 times, you can claim a spiritual virginity for yourself, it is never too late. You must simply say to yourself "I am in control of my own body. I am a strong young woman. No man will ever again make me feel inferior. No man will ever again cause me to lose control of my own body. And from this point forward, I claim the victory and purity that should rightfully belong to me. From this point forward, I am within myself a true virgin." <br> You may use this if you have been raped, but in my own opinion if you were truly raped, then no responsibility lies on your shoulders. As far as I am concerned, virgins who are raped are still virgins because they themselves did not choose to give that gift away. <br> For those of you who are Christians, confess your troubles before God and ask him to make your pure once again, "white as snow". God forgives all sins. He has forgiven me and my fiance and given us a second chance. He will forgive you too. <p> I hope this will serve as an encouragement to empower any young woman who feels pressured into doing what they do not want to do. Be strong, a warrior-ess of your own body and self.
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