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( Another Chance )
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Okay, I have a problem with girls. It's really bothering me. I'm ashamed of myself even, and I feel like I can't do anything about it. I'm a freshmen in college, and I'm 19 years old. You would think that girls would be the least of my problems, but they are far from bieng the least. They are all I think about. Everyday, constantly. I'm sick of bieng alone. I really want to do something about it, but It's not easy for me. Not at all. I find it incredibly difficult, girls. Today I'm on campus looking for a place to study and I went to a library, where they help you out. I've gotten help before, but usually it's from dudes. I get so distracted by a pretty girl. It's impossible how nervous I get. So I go and I walk in and the teacher for my certain class isn't there. Theres this other girl though, who teaches a higher level. She says maybe she can help me out. Right away my heart rate increases, I get nervous, and I can't even look her in the eye. I can't even speak for god sake. I sit quietly, and I had to take a minute to breathe and get the nervousness out of my system. My voice was still shaky when I spoke. I just know that she seen the fear in me. She didn't know how to react. God I wanted to tell her how sorry I was. I wanted to say something to just make it better. I just thought she was pretty. That's all. I wanted to die, because I don't even understand why I get this way around pretty girls. I was ashamed of myself. I couldn't do anything about it. I had no control over how nervous I was. Two hours went by like two minutes, and I didn't even get any work done. I'm miserable. Afterward, I declared that I had a problem. I have a problem, with myself. Post edited at 10:47 pm on Feb. 19, 2007 by Another Chance
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The Lobotomist
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i have the same problem
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dolce e gabbana
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well at least you know you have a problem and want to get help, you should probably increase your confidence levels. probably why you're having this problem. do you stutter ?
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Bling06
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Quote: from Another Chance at 10:46 pm on Feb. 19, 2007
 Okay, I have a problem with girls. It's really bothering me. I'm ashamed of myself even, and I feel like I can't do anything about it. I'm a freshmen in college, and I'm 19 years old. You would think that girls would be the least of my problems, but they are far from bieng the least. They are all I think about. Everyday, constantly. I'm sick of bieng alone. I really want to do something about it, but It's not easy for me. Not at all. I find it incredibly difficult, girls. Today I'm on campus looking for a place to study and I went to a library, where they help you out. I've gotten help before, but usually it's from dudes. I get so distracted by a pretty girl. It's impossible how nervous I get. So I go and I walk in and the teacher for my certain class isn't there. Theres this other girl though, who teaches a higher level. She says maybe she can help me out. Right away my heart rate increases, I get nervous, and I can't even look her in the eye. I can't even speak for god sake. I sit quietly, and I had to take a minute to breathe and get the nervousness out of my system. My voice was still shaky when I spoke. I just know that she seen the fear in me. She didn't know how to react. God I wanted to tell her how sorry I was. I wanted to say something to just make it better. I just thought she was pretty. That's all. I wanted to die, because I don't even understand why I get this way around pretty girls. I was ashamed of myself. I couldn't do anything about it. I had no control over how nervous I was. Two hours went by like two minutes, and I didn't even get any work done. I'm miserable. Afterward, I declared that I had a problem. I have a problem, with myself. 
Don't worry this isn't abnormal.. I to have this problem. I see a girl that at my local albertsons everyday. She gives me penetrating looks and smiles lots. She pokes her head around the aisle I'm in and she even offered me cookies at the sampler table  Everyday I'm like oh yeah you ready for me baby I'm gonna say hi to you today! With no prevail I falter... damn she is cute and seems nice. If this chick helps you willingly there shouldn't be anything to worry about. Although this is easier said then done... Well I put my 2 cents in
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divineassault
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Man, its true, guys all have the same issue with girls, except lucky ones who somehow master it when they're like 6. But what you want is a solution...or at least a hope of a solution, so here it goes. To get over the issue with pretty girls, the first thing you should do is get comfortable around girls in general. Not ugly ones, but not like knockout 5'9'' asians and blonds with hour glass figures for days. Nope, just get used to be in the proximity of cute girls. When I was going through this progression to get to my level of comfort with women, I decided to start sitting next to them in class. This leads to the next progression, which is finding a perfectly good reason to speak with them. Related to class, or something relevant to the time/place. Right now, the idea is for you to stop putting, as they so eloquently put in the 40 year old virgin, "the pussy on the pedastool" one step at a time. You're not tryin to become some super mack, you just wanna stop losing your mind in a society where women outnumber men...might as well start getting comfortable with the hot ones now. You're penis will thank you later, as well as your sanity.
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