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 Replies: 781 — Last Post Sep. 20 11:21am by runthespread
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monkeyguy123
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yea its true to those who r shy
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TroubledTeen895
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I'm usually really good with overcoming shyness. It's the confidence in the relationship I lack. It took me two years to kiss the girl I was goin out with on/off at the time. By the time I did it was too late and almost totally wrecked out friendship. We're good now but friendship is where it stops. I'm an outgoing person and usually spontaneous and flirt alot with girls. I don't have a problem being myself with them, I'm known to be a funny guy, from what I'm told and I make almost everyone I talk to laugh. Usually it's a swear or the way I say something, I have alot of different expressions and things that I do. I don't think people think of me as weird. This year was the first year I really got more friends out of the usually group I was in, I said hi to more people like in the preppy, popular crowd. Mostly I've been in the crowd that is in between everything, people knew me, I had my good friends and I sometimes talked to the people above and below me so to speak. Now I talk to pretty much everyone, even people who I didn't like before, or at least I'm nice to them if they say something to me. I've started becoming popular in my own way and am quite happy where I'm at now. I talk to the popular crowd alot, I'm playing soccer and making new friends like jocks and shit, I've been getting to the movies and out with girls I would have never thought I would have before. I tried to look at myself through their eyes but that was hard. I figured if people can't like me for who I am then fuck them. I'm happy with myself most of the time, and usually try to be very upbeat if something is bothering me. Sometimes it don't work but I can't be perky all the damn time ya know? I'm still working on getting a girlfriend but its not priority like i used to make it before. I figure if it's gonna happen it'll happen. The worst they can say is "no" right?
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creeper
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yeah, how do you overcome shyness? I've never been able to figure it out.
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Taijutsu
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ok i was shy all the time round gurls and still a bit shy around my gurlfriend. The first time i met my gurlfriend i was shy as hell and i didnt know wat to say to her or wat to do around her, then i held my hand out and she held it, then everything fell into place. Its just the time it takes u to build up the conefents to do things around gurls.
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jillignsiland
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I've never had a problem with shyness. I guess it has something to do with my morals. I believe that what other people think should not change what you do or think. But, around the guys I like it's a little different, because I really care what they think more than I do about other people. But, then I realize that if this guy deserves me he'll like me for who I am. And then I won't have to pretend. I don't think anyone should change who they are because someone else says or thinks so. :)
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GdFtherOFCOWS
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I can talk to girls just fine, its the asking out part that...yeah
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Well my problem is that I am oneof those people who is extremly shy but hides it by either being a real whitch, overly prudish, or insanly bookish. My friend says it is because I to much about what other people think I must admit that I think it all so involves my low self-esteem at times. I am always afraid to even show interest in aguy because I have already made them hate me. I'm just show afraid to show my true shelf because I can't stand the thought of being mocked, plus if no one has shown interest in me at my school by now (happy 16th) they won't ever.
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I can talk to girls just fine, its the asking out part that...yeah 
