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( Ramellan )
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over the past month my best friend, we will call her Rikara, has been dating my ex best friend, who we will call ripper. lately Rikara has been sad because despite her bf living 20 miles away, she wants to see him all the time. he is 18 and he doesnt have a car, well not one that works at the moment. she is 15, and they had sex. they know they cant see eachother, but after Ripper got his latest car, on his time off all he has been doing is ignoring her for his car. she had been threatening to jump off the bridge by her house since i met her, and today i finally couldnt stand her shit anymore and told her if she is gonna do it, make it today. 10 minutes ago my friend instant messaged me telling me that she had been gone for over an hour, her mom thinking she was out walking. he came back saying that he had fond her UNDER the bridge with a box cutting blade and cuts all over. she had been crying and saying how she wanted to get away... should i feel bad for her or should i just deal with it cause it was another one of her stupid decisions?
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9:32 pm on Feb. 14, 2007 | Joined July 2006 | 440 Days Active
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TigerV05
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what a stupid kid. tell her to go to therapy.
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mr unknown
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You sorta told her to do it (if I read correctly) so I would feel bad. Tell her sorry and shit and you didn't mean it.
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Well you should first of all decide where you stand. Either be her friend, and do all you can to help her through it, or just leave her alone and don't pretend like you're her friend. You can't just be there in the middle. She probably trusts you, and think how she feels now that you told her to get it over with.
Her decisions may be stupid, but I don't think you should treat her such. And feeling bad for her or dealing with it don't really sound like the best options either. If you've seriously been trying to help her through the problems she has, and you're just sick of her and her problems, then make a decision and don't be her friend anymore, if you want.
But of course, I say do whatever you can to make her stop trying to hurt herself.
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well she coudn't wanna go THAT badly... sorry but true... get her some help.. don't feel bad coz some ppl are just craving attention... she is fine so yer.
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oh, and she cant go to therapy because her family is so fucked up that when she got home they didnt do anything about the cuts...
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You sorta told her to do it (if I read correctly) so I would feel bad. Tell her sorry and shit and you didn't mean it. 
