i read both posts but im kinda confused. who is it that doesnt want you drinking and took your alcohol?
i really dont think this is something that would come to going to 'war.' i do however think you need to confront the person. not in a rude manner but you need to say something. ask them if they did it and if they lie simple explain that you were only asking as to not accuse them but you are fully aware it was them. tell them you are an adult and you do not have a drinking problem but if you want an alcoholic beverage now and again that its your choice and they have no right to take something that you spent money on just because they dont agree with it.
if you do this and buy something else then it goes missing again then i suggest putting it in your room. get a mini fridge because theyre not too expensive and who really wants warm alcohol. i would also just buy a lock of some kind to either lock your bedroom or to lock the mini fridge. im not sure if this person would go that far to rid you of the alcohol which is why im suggesting that. even with keeping it in your room i dont see why you cant go grab it from your room and still go sit on the couch with everyone else. if anyone asks why you have the alcohol in your room just explain that theres someone in your house who cant keep their hands off of your beverages and it costs too much money to have it taken.
do you still live at home? like i said, i dont know whos taking your alcohol. but if you do then idk i kinda think its okay for a parent/guardian to tell you not to drink in their house. i agree with the whole their house their rules thing. if theyre that uncomfortable then i think you should find a spot to chill at when you wanna have a drink or stop at a bar or something. maybe that seems unreasonable to you but i also think respect is very important when youre living with someone else especially your parents.
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with asses that forgot to get old.