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 Replies: 23 — Last Post July 30, 2012 5:01pm by hmahhm
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Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012
 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012
If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. 
i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat.
Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway
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Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:33 pm on July 30, 2012
Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012
Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012
If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear.
i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat.
Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway
see i think that's fine because you both seem to be okay with it and at least understand each other. on the other hand there might be couples who wouldn't be as comfortable with their partners putting on weight like that.
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Quote: from malignant melanoma at 3:33 pm on July 30, 2012
Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012
Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012
If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear.
i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat.
Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway
The fact that you even say it is "slightly annoying" seems to obviously go against the "he won't care" idea. Caring about an issue doesn't mean that it's break up worthy right then and there. I'd be lying to say that my partner's weight doesn't matter to me, but I'd also be lying to try to imply that other things aren't more important.
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Quote: from JennyColada at 3:50 pm on July 30, 2012Quote: from malignant melanoma at 3:33 pm on July 30, 2012Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway
The fact that you even say it is "slightly annoying" seems to obviously go against the "he won't care" idea. Caring about an issue doesn't mean that it's break up worthy right then and there. I'd be lying to say that my partner's weight doesn't matter to me, but I'd also be lying to try to imply that other things aren't more important.
yeah, you're right. well, i think it's more that he doesn't mind how i look right now even though i've gained weight and i slightly mind how he looks because of how he hasn't even tried to eat better/exercise more since he's gained weight. i've never brought it up to him. i think i'm just full of contradictions. Post edited at 4:10 pm on July 30, 2012 by malignant melanoma
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