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why does this dude bug you so much, and if she was really feeling you wouldn't she throw him off and get back with you?

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He ruined my happiness. He stole from me.

Family
food
funds
fiance.

"The Four F's." fuck with those, enemy for life.
I had things going good her parents were ok with me. so he ruined family,messed with my funds because I have a 3,000.00 diamond ring laying around in a box somewhere that i can't do anything with.lost a 19.00/hr job(would have had too much shit to deal with drama wise if i was in the same town.so he hit three out of the four.
I never swing first, I mind my own business and let mad shit roll away like a ball down a hill. But im hungarian...fuck with those "Four F's" I'll do more than swing first...it only takes one for you to fuck with and yea. but three...The only reason why I haven't done anything is because she cries and begs me not to because she's afraid i'll have a repeat incident.

didn't he basically mess with your funds by convincing her and the parents to get away from you?

a repeat incident like the one that injured you?

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Y'know I really love a ham sandwich.
Thing is the nearest deli to me is run by Muslims so
I can't get ham there.

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He ruined my happiness. He stole from me.

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She's a human being, an individual. Please don't think so low of her as to assume that she is just a puppet of his. That's just rude and insensitive to the girl.

I honestly feel like you need to let this go and, for lack of a better term, grow up. Not all relationships work out, and sometimes stuff goes wrong. That doesn't mean that you have to "fuck shit up" or some such absurd notion. Being a "man" isn't about attacking based on "four Fs", it's about understanding how to handle a situation in a DECENT and MATURE manner.

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One World. One Passion. OneSight.

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Quote: from Anonymous at 8:53 am on Aug. 1, 2012

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He ruined my happiness. He stole from me.

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I dunno, based on what you've written it sounds more like she left you, he didn't "steal" her.

She's a human being, an individual. Please don't think so low of her as to assume that she is just a puppet of his. That's just rude and insensitive to the girl.

I honestly feel like you need to let this go and, for lack of a better term, grow up. Not all relationships work out, and sometimes stuff goes wrong. That doesn't mean that you have to "fuck shit up" or some such absurd notion. Being a "man" isn't about attacking based on "four Fs", it's about understanding how to handle a situation in a DECENT and MATURE manner.

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it might feel like you think she did no wrong dude but she chose to be with him

she could have gone against her folks to be with you but she didn't

what does that say man?

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Y'know I really love a ham sandwich.
Thing is the nearest deli to me is run by Muslims so
I can't get ham there.