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Are you gonna spank your kids?
Replies: 31Last Post July 22, 2012 7:20pm by CyanideKisses
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My dad use to beat my ass as a kid but I never learned my lesson it just made me resent him. I have a niece who I practically watch everyday and she is an absolute demon child! But no matter what she does I don't think she would ever be able to do anything to make me wanna hit her, maybe yell at her but that's it. I know for damn sure when I have kids I'm gonna show them nothing but love and affection because I don't want them to grow up how I grew up.

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No I will not their are alot better and effective punishments. Then creating violence  

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I've been hit once. On the back of the legs with a wooden spoon.

I'd never hit my children. There's no need. You can get messages through to children in less barbaric ways.

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Absolutely!
And if they backtalk me they'll get a slap right on their little faces.

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Yes, my children will be spanked when needed

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Quote: from Hunnies at 10:59 am on July 21, 2012

Yes, my children will be spanked when needed

This.
Also if/when I spank them, it won't be violently. Just enough to get the message across.

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No. Spanking lowers IQ

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Quote: from XRatedShotgunOpera at 8:55 am on July 21, 2012

Absolutely!  
And if they backtalk me they'll get a slap right on their little faces.

lol.

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Quote: from Hunnies at 10:59 am on July 21, 2012

Yes, my children will be spanked when needed

This, and it's not gonna be like my goal is to bruise them as badly as possible, it's just gonna be to get their attention, like I got when I was little.

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Absolutely not.

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Quote: from Miscreation at 5:04 pm on July 21, 2012

No. Spanking lowers IQ
besides IQ being meaningless, fucking LOL, how absurd.

i'm not a parent so i can't really say how things will change when i have my own children, but i think there are perfectly good ways of raising and disciplining children that doesn't include physically harming them to any degree.


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Quote: from polio at 9:10 am on July 21, 2012

Quote: from Miscreation at 5:04 pm on July 21, 2012

No. Spanking lowers IQ
besides IQ being meaningless, fucking LOL, how absurd.

i'm not a parent so i can't really say how things will change when i have my own children, but i think there are perfectly good ways of raising and disciplining children that doesn't include physically harming them to any degree.



If IQ is important, I'd rather not ruin it for my child just because I can't come up with a better punishment.

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Only if they did something truly awful. I have been hit twice in my life; once when I broke a brand new computer then lied about touching it.

I remember it vividly and learnt my lesson.

I've watched documentaries about child-rearing and different parenting types, and seen kids who are smacked every time they do anything wrong in real life, and they just become immune to/used to it, it thus becomes meaningless.

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Quote: from Miscreation at 5:15 pm on July 21, 2012

Quote: from polio at 9:10 am on July 21, 2012

Quote: from Miscreation at 5:04 pm on July 21, 2012

No. Spanking lowers IQ
besides IQ being meaningless, fucking LOL, how absurd.  

 i'm not a parent so i can't really say how things will change when i have my own children, but i think there are perfectly good ways of raising and disciplining children that doesn't include physically harming them to any degree.



If IQ is important, I'd rather not ruin it for my child just because I can't come up with a better punishment.

that still assumes that spanking lowers IQ, which i've no reason to believe it does. i haven't seen any study that shows spanking impairs cognitive ability or progression.

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Quote: from polio at 9:39 am on July 21, 2012

Quote: from Miscreation at 5:15 pm on July 21, 2012

Quote: from polio at 9:10 am on July 21, 2012

Quote: from Miscreation at 5:04 pm on July 21, 2012

No. Spanking lowers IQ
besides IQ being meaningless, fucking LOL, how absurd.

  i'm not a parent so i can't really say how things will change when i have my own children, but i think there are perfectly good ways of raising and disciplining children that doesn't include physically harming them to any degree.


 
 If IQ is important, I'd rather not ruin it for my child just because I can't come up with a better punishment.

that still assumes that spanking lowers IQ, which i've no reason to believe it does. i haven't seen any study that shows spanking impairs cognitive ability or progression.


I have. And even if I didn't see those studies I know that spanking hurts kids in other ways and doesn't teach a lesson. Can we just not argue for one day?

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