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( JonDick13926 )
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Before I start, I just want to say that I'm not insulting anyone, and that I'm fully aware that only SOME people do this. I just want to know why. I've had a few girlfriends in the past (and the current one does this as well) who believe that, regardless of how long we've been together and regardless of how serious the relationship is, they must take part in every single decision that I make. If I'm deciding on a new job, planning on going to school, planning on buying something worth more than $10, etc, and I don't consult the girl, then it turns into a fight because she says she feels like I don't want to make decisions together and I feel like I'm being treated like a little kid who can't make his own decisions. I'm 19 years old. I could understand if I was married and we were deciding on a house or a car, and we had to make a decision together, but that's never the case. The most confusing part is when it comes to a decision SHE is making for herself, if I DID want a say in it (Which I don't) then she would be mad. I've actually attempted to take part in her decision making before, just to see what would happen since she always does it, and she was pissed. So basically, why do some girls feel the need to take part in every decision that the guy makes, yet refuses to let anyone take part in their decision making? This is the third girlfriend I've had that does this.
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Savior
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They probably think you're mentally incompetent. What's your IQ?
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I took a pledge to never respond to Abs again. You all should too.
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10:03 am on July 21, 2012 | Joined: April 2008 | Days Active: 697
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luvable
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i don't do that.
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if you leave me tonight i'll wake up alone
don't tell me i'll make it on my own
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lovelyabigaily
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Quote: from Natsy at 1:03 pm on July 21, 2012
 Control freaks. Maybe they REALLY LIKE YOU AND WANT TO SHARE EVERYTHING WITH YOU EVEN POOP?
You're probably going for the same type of girl.
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( JonDick13926 )
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I continue to make my own decisions, even though it causes fight after fight. I doubt she thinks I'm incompetent. She's probably a control freak, like said. She does seem like she likes to be in control of things. The others did, too.
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Elizabeth1114
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Maybe you should just tell her to stop
Its your life not hers, shes just apart of it
She has no say
Do whatever the fuck you want dude
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kayylor
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She just wants to be involved in your life but when you flip it the other way she thinks your calling her stupid or something its weird so just try saying somethng like I want to be more involved in your life etc... she'll love it
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I'm not retreating I'm advancing in a different direction :P
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It is because we care.
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I do not care if this offends you or your worthless god
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