Ok so I'm a nice guy. That being said for the last many years I've been "friends" with a lady on here every week she has nailed me begging for money not little bits mind you but half to 3/4 of a pay check and it's still not enough for her. Bouncing from boyfriend to boyfriend using me as her own personal bank cuz I'm nice sadly... So I got tired of it a year ago I said ok what's in it for me?? Nothing that's what... Claims were bf/gf but doesn't show me it when I try anything she's always busy..bah so got tired of it by this time I've sent her a large amount cuz if I didn't she would stop being friends or bf/gf cuz as she put it who'd want a loser like me? Oh yes she loves playin her mind games says she's coming to visit then is in car accident and in coma or she is homeless and pregnant plz..loves doing all that to me. Says she's scared of me has to walk on eggshells around me gee I wonder why just cuz you turned me this way against you? OH the greatest part she still wants to be bf/gf with me cuz she still loves me. Got her friends and family list off fb cuz tired of her messing with me. Either commit fully to this but she won't so letting her friends and family know what kind of person she is. So should I care how she feels?
1:54 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 | Joined: July 2012 | Days Active: 104 Join to learn more about DemonsatemeWisconsin, United States | StraightMale | Posts: 1,273 | Points: 2,343
honestly...I don't think you should. Save yourself the pain. I am a girl, and I had friends like that. They only came to me when they wanted something, and quite frankly, I got sick of being used. Give her an ultimatum. Tell her you are sick of it all, and you aren't going to put up with it. If she complies, maybe its worth going for and if not, its her loss. You can do so much better!!!! you can. I promise!!
And if my advice doesn't help you, message me. Hope this helps though. It really is a lot to think about, but once you make a decision, itll feel good.
2:03 pm on Aug. 8, 2012 | Joined: July 2012 | Days Active: 36 Join to learn more about birdymmyIllinois, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 205 | Points: 680
okay so she's a real son so by the sounds of things but you should care about here feeling enough to not want her to commit suicide coz if she goes n does that you don't wonn think you being nasty to her had anything to do with it. i say part ways as politely as pssible but make it clear that your parting ways permanently
------- it could always be werse
6:04 am on Aug. 11, 2012 | Joined: July 2012 | Days Active: 29 Join to learn more about h8meiwldAustralia | AsexualFemale | Posts: 271 | Points: 577
First of all if you want to her to be in your life you need to get rid of that list you made cause that is one way you can gain trust from her, and second you just still care for her as a friend. if you really need a friend or something i'm always here for. if you want to talk
11:49 am on Mar. 5, 2013 | Joined: June 2011 | Days Active: 16 Join to learn more about fluffymuffUtah, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 22 | Points: 182
First of all if you want to her to be in your life you need to get rid of that list you made cause that is one way you can gain trust from her, and second you just still care for her as a friend. if you really need a friend or something i'm always here for. if you want to talk
11:49 am on Mar. 5, 2013 | Joined: June 2011 | Days Active: 16 Join to learn more about fluffymuffUtah, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 22 | Points: 182
First of all if you want to her to be in your life you need to get rid of that list you made cause that is one way you can gain trust from her, and second you just still care for her as a friend. if you really need a friend or something i'm always here for. if you want to talk
11:50 am on Mar. 5, 2013 | Joined: June 2011 | Days Active: 16 Join to learn more about fluffymuffUtah, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 22 | Points: 182
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