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how would it make you feel if another man carried my bags?
Replies: 17Last Post Aug. 8, 2012 4:56pm by lollerwhat
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so this girl swears up and down that she doesn't want a relationship with me now or ever

i'm just kinda :\ about it, but it is kinda whatever in the long run

still, while she swears that i'm not her boyfriend, she will try to shame me with stuff that only works on a 'boyfriend'

like the other day we were packing up to go home from a few day vacation and i was like hey get your stuff downstairs and i'll have the car pulled up to the front office

she was all zomg so you aren't going to carry my stuff for me (it was pretty light anyways) so i'll just go find some real man in the hotel to do it for me

i was just lolling to myself, i mean why would i care if another man carried your bag?

i ended up just saying fuck it and took her bag with me so i didn't have to hear anymore bitching about the matter (i'm sure it would have lasted most of the 3 hr drive home), but really what's the point of shaming tactics on 'just a friend'?

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are you sure you're not already married to this woman

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The point is that she gets to walk around without having to carry a bag. Women's privileges nowadays.

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but really what's the point of shaming tactics on 'just a friend'?

i ended up just saying fuck it and took her bag with me


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It wasn't so much the 'shaming' that convinced me to do it, but rather the high noise level and the thought of being in a car with her for the rest of the day.

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Quote: from lollerwhat at 4:56 pm on Aug. 8, 2012

It wasn't so much the 'shaming' that convinced me to do it, but rather the high noise level and the thought of being in a car with her for the rest of the day.
I'm sure you could say the same for a toddler that learns that throwing a fit and sobbing will get his/her parents to yield. They might do it for peace and quiet rather than out of a sense of sympathy or shame for their child's emotional pain, but at the end of the day a win's a win.

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You had your own bags?

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she will try to shame me with stuff that only works on a 'boyfriend'
lol no. girls pull that cutesy crap with any guy they're friends with to avoid having to do it themselves. has nothing to do with being in a relationship, it's just easier not to carry it.

and agreed with wilder. you did it anyway, it makes you seem like a pushover tbh. you clearly want to bone this girl but she has no interest of doing the same, so while shes there making you her bitch you're willingly going along with it.


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I think I had brought most of my stuff to the car by then.

My bags in total added up to a backpack, a satchel, walmart bag full of food n booze, and a large plastic bag full of my dirty clothes.  Her 20-30 lb suitcase wasn't much.

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again, it has nothing to do with actual weight. it's still a 'hassle' carrying it to the car from the girls perspective. and maybe she was also doing it to test the boundaries to see how far you will go.

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Quote: from lollerwhat at 5:49 pm on Aug. 8, 2012

she was all zomg so you aren't going to carry my stuff for me (it was pretty light anyways) so i'll just go find some real man in the hotel to do it for me
this definitely works on way more guys than just a significant other.....it's not about jealousy

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I don't think you shoulda really done that so easy man
If it really required helping then yeah or even "you carry one an I carry one" sorta thing

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So why are you friends with this bitch? I didn't think Abs had an ounce of chivalry in his body.

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Quote: from Jim Raynor at 12:26 am on Aug. 9, 2012

So why are you friends with this bitch?
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Sounds like a bitch. The fact is, women want equality, so if you ask me, they can (literally) carry their own weight.

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