We went to one of his friends apartment to hangout. This is the first of his friends that I've met (I live in a different city), so it was a big deal for me . His best friend, his wife, and their kid and his ex were also coming over. He told them yesterday that I would be there. So, we get there and everyone else shows up, except his bestfriends wife and his ex go inside without introducing themselves to me.
Then, about an hour later, at which point I was confused and irritable, the guy who's place we were at comes out and says we have to leave because his ex isn't comfortable, therefore we can't be there. His bestfriend says It's not the right time. I was trying to be polite, but I did tell him there isn't a right time, It's a bandaid that has to be ripped off. So we left.
I understand that she's uncomfortable, but they haven't been together for a year. They're best friends, it isn't like there's a rift between them. We've been "officially" together since May, but we've been together since September. She needs to put her big girl pants on.
So, we leave and they're all calling and texting him telling him off for bringing his "new" girlfriend over. I told him that maybe they're nice people, but they don't have to worry about meeting me because I won't meet them. To me, that was offensive, rude and bad manners. Also, It's some old fashioned drama, and I'm not playing the part of the new girlfriend that everyone hates.
I also told him he needs to patch it up quick, because 1. Those are his friends and 2. I don't want to look like I'm tugging his strings. He's fine with me not wanting to meet them, but he's verrrry pissed off at them. This was planned. There was no excuse for them to act that way.
I've never been snubbed like that. It's silly. I'm so put off right now.
Like a runaway