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apology to my bf from the guy i cheated with?
Replies: 11Last Post Jan. 14 6:45pm by Russ1
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would it be any help?

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It's not the guys fault.

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Quote: from PBScott at 6:52 am on Jan. 9, 2017

It's not the guys fault.

i already apologized so many times.


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Russ1


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Might depend on the details. Was this a one or many time sex thing? What's the connection between your boyfriend and the guy you cheated with? Apparently you are still in contact with the guy you cheated with, why?

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Silenced


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Yeah, proving you are still in contaxt with the guy you cheated with is probably the worst thing you could do.

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I think if my partner cheated then I really wouldn't give a shit how the third party feels. All I care about would be how I feel. Having them "apologize" would just kinda feel like driving home how little my partner can read my needs and wants.

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if you cheated on your boyfriend then you are in the wrong relationship

learn from this and move on

Post edited at 2:09 pm on Jan. 9, 2017 by bosss


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Jock F


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Quote: from bosss at 1:56 pm on Jan. 9, 2017

if you cheated on your boyfriend then you are in the wrong relationship

learn from this and move on



Yes, THIS  ^^^^^^^^^  

 

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Russ1


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Quote: from bosss at 1:56 pm on Jan. 9, 2017

if you cheated on your boyfriend then you are in the wrong relationship

learn from this and move on


Not necessarily. People make mistakes, things happen. If she just had a situation that arose once and she made a mistake that does not mean that her relationship is not important to her or cannot be saved. Many relationships have survived cheating. If she constantly or frequently cheats, then you may be right for many reasons, but I don't agree that people should just throw away a relationship with one mistake.


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Foreverthinkingofhim


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nothing is going to help it. other than time. but even then you'll be lucky. you cheated, no apology can make up for that

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Jim Raynor


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what needs to happen is he needs to dump your ass and beat the shit out of the guy you cheated on him with.

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Russ1


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What's the point of beating anybody up? Does he own her body and have the right to determine who she shares it with? If he doesn't want to maintain a relationship with her, then he is free to break it off with her, but this nonsense about beating people up over consensual sexual choices  is ridiculous. Sounds like you see women as mindless property who must be protected against their own choices. Why aren't you recommending that he beat her up? She's the one who made a commitment to him, not the guy she cheated with.

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