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Not allowed to be with my bf
Replies: 8Last Post Jan. 8 9:23pm by penguincube
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I am 26 and live with my nan. I have a bf who i have dated for about 3 yrs. We had a little break in that time though.
My family don't like him and won't allow me to be with him. He has been working in a bar but has been suffering from an injury and not been working for a few months. He has expressed wanting to do a degree relating with computers (that's what he is goid at).
Recently my aunt secretly took my phone, read my messages, secretly phoned my bf and threatened him with nasty threats. She read messages where my bf stated he wanted to have a family with me. My famiky also don't like thst i have not met his sis yet who recently moved to the country.
My family think that my bf is after our family home but he has expressed wanting to move back to AUS with me in the future.

My mum has also phoned him a number of times and threatned him.
Recently my aunt made me break up with him via text in front of her.
She has also made me let her check my phone but i deleted any signs of him in advance.
Now i have to have a secret relationship and hope i don't get found out  

Post edited at 1:26 pm on Jan. 8, 2017 by sour candy

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how old are u?

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seems like they treat you as a teen or child I can relate to it its rather sad and frustrating

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Any chance you can move out? This is why sometimes it's good to move out as early as you can. I don't know how it is in the UK but here where I live in america people move out quite early.

I'm in the same boat sadly. I didn't move out because I made alot of dumb decisions these past few years but i'm saving up now.

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Quote: from young22 at 2:45 pm on Jan. 8, 2017

Any chance you can move out? This is why sometimes it's good to move out as early as you can. I don't know how it is in the UK but here where I live in america people move out quite early.  

I'm in the same boat sadly. I didn't move out because I made alot of dumb decisions these past few years but i'm saving up now.



I live with my nan who i grew up with. I love her also.
I can't move out because my nan cannot live by herself.

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Then she can't very well kick you out if you remind her that you are 26, not 6. If you let her do the things that you describe, I do not think you're mature enough to be in an adult relationship.

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You are 26 years old, you can't let your family run your life.

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I don't know why your nan can't live by herself but if you are living with her because she needs your help rather than you not having the means to move out she has no real claim over any decisions in your life. From the type of abuse you are describing it might even be time to consider some type of assisted living facility so you can move on with your life.

Are you fully supporting this guy while he hasn't been working or is he at least getting some sort of disability or unemployment income?


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