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Bananarama
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Erm, I think its in Teen dating and relationshipd about 'HOw to overcome shyness!' Try that
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WindWhisperer
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Maybe take some time and see what happenmd with these friends. maybe they will be able to help bring out you in the class.
------- *And I listen for the whisper...of your sweet insanity* *While I formulate denials, of your effect on me*
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spacemac
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hmm also remember that it's college know.. you need to learn to speak your mind otherwise those ideas may never come out and may just lie there forgotten until the end of time..
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4:59 am on Feb. 26, 2006 | Joined: Jan. 2003 | Days Active: 653 Join to learn more about spacemac California, United States | Straight Male | Posts: 3,341 | Points: 11,100
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u know me
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just be yourself
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dragonking
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Well, in class your supposed to be learning by listening to the teacher so it's a good thing you pay attention. I sort of the same way. If a person saw me in class and then out somewhere with certain people they would think I have a split personality or something. It's good that you made some friends. I have made a few in college too. It seems like not that many are friendly in the first place though at my college.
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devious tara
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After being bullied i belive it can be extreamly hard to get your confidence back. But you'll get there, your probally outside your comfort zone in class, like alot of shy people, over time you'll get more and more used to it, and the real you will be un-leached.. goodluck with college, stay strong, and dont forget to smile
------- Mummy to a boy born on o1.o4.2oo8
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Skip
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I think shyness is a normal response for some people after being bullied especially if the bullying starts/started at an early age. Now shyness is an irrational fear of something, and Im guessing that for you it's a fear of being made fun of. You might think that if you say something stupid people will tease you. First of all you need to realize that most of those people are gone (high school has lots of them but once you're in college/university there is a smaller amount of them). People respect you for yourself. If you say something stupid, just laugh it off, that's what most other people do as well. It's good that you've made some friends. You could also try "Overcoming Shyness" (topic in Teen Dating...) For your self-esteem, do things that you're good at, hang around good/fun people that accept you for who you are and won't make fun of you in any serious way. And start thinking positively if you're not doing so. Experience really helps, just talk to anyone around you and you'll see that people aren't the way you think they are (ie they won't make fun of you, and if they do, then just ignore it or have a laugh).
------- Leave well enough alone, annihilate the telephone Be what only you can see: a curious and odd belief Meant to walk the crooked mile; Never blink, never smile
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7:55 am on Feb. 26, 2006 | Joined: Mar. 2005 | Days Active: 1,392 Join to learn more about Skip Ontario, Canada | Straight Male | Posts: 30,464 | Points: 45,097
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pntpstlprncss05
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Well... from what I've experienced, people don't go to class to make friends. I'd say the number of friends I've made in my classes is probably in the single digets. However... I've made a ton of friends at the dorms or just around campus. Don't get down on yourself because you have no one to sit with in class or whatever.... most people don't. Instead, go to the gym at your school or a school function and you'll meet people with your same interests. That's the easiest and most fun way to meet people. And spend plenty of time with the friends you already do have because they know people too and will introduce you. And don't be sad about being shy. There's nothing bad about it. Usually shy people are the most level headed and sure of themselves people out there, and that's awesome! Good luck!
------- If I told you I felt ageless, would you tell me I'm not old?
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Flow Morphia Slow
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well, thats not necessarily a bad thing, unless your imput in class counts towards your final grade.
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( londongirl )
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thanks and i know they have gone the peple who use to bully me isit a gd idear to tell my college tutor why im quite and she if she has advice for me.
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Guy Incognito
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I still havn't made a single college friend, but my classmates all seem like douches so I'm fine with that. But if you want friends just find somebody that seems interesting and make small talk, it'll eventually grow.
------- I feel like a woman when I pee and poo at the same time. I played Jesus #2 in the hit movie "Too Many Jesuses"
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