She was desperate for love and attention from guys, and casually slept around with many guys. Anyone who made her feel desired.

She's no longer her old self now though, and she told me that I'm the best partner she's ever been with, both in and out of bed, and that she truly loves me.

So yes, we are in love with each other, and she no longer behaves the way she used to do.
And I'm usually a very open minded guy, so if she responsibly enjoyed safe sex, I KNOW that there's nothing wrong with it, as long as she is loving and faithful with me now.

But somehow, I just can't think logically and rationally. I keep thinking her doing whatever she did with other guys, and it rips me apart.

Again, I KNOW past is past, and I should love her the way she is now, but I'm having some difficulty.

Any tips?

Some men tend to not like the women they're with to be shared around, so knowing of a girls promiscuous past bothers a lot of them on some level.

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I don't eat, I don't sleep, I don't wash, and I don't care.

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If you loved her, you would get over it.

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While, yes, this is a feeling that he should work past, it isn't as simple as "getting over it". These are real emotions and real feelings, and they aren't going to go away overnight.

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Although I've never dealt with these emotions from your side of the coin (I've always been the slutty girlfriend), I feel like just taking time and pushing the emotions aside is really the only way to go. Dwelling on them won't help, so working on ignoring them, training your mind to stop focusing on those thoughts seems to be the best course of action. But it takes time and effort. If this is how you feel right now then that's ok. While you may not want to look at your girlfriend's past in this light, you can't beat yourself up over it either. Just accept it for what it is (both her past and your feelings) and move on.

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