Okay first thing I am a VIRGIN!!! So I talked to this boy (L)for abt 2 months ending it in mid june..he wasnt my bf Then I talked to his friend(S) for about a week after n still now I feel horribly bad thier good friends n tht im attracted to them both with feelings Now that Im talkin to S n knowing he wants a relationship I see tht I want L back N im thinking abt breakin it off with S n talking to L again becuz We still talk as friends n we return the same feelings :/ How do I break it to the other boy without sounding bitchy, trashy,hoeish or sluttish....idk
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11:29 pm on July 1, 2012 | Joined: Dec. 2011 | Days Active: 35 Join to learn more about liarble2014Virginia, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 127 | Points: 488
Quit trying to break up friendships and move on to ONE person that you genuinely care about. Guys are humans, people; they aren't objects to be tossed about and played with.
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11:35 pm on July 1, 2012 | Joined: Nov. 2005 | Days Active: 1,101 Join to learn more about ChemicEmotionsUnited States | BisexualFemale | Posts: 30,342 | Points: 42,908
Quit trying to break up friendships and move on to ONE person that you genuinely care about. Guys are humans, people; they aren't objects to be tossed about and played with.
I guess ur right...bt im not trying to breakup friendships intentionally..lik its a longer story thoe
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11:37 pm on July 1, 2012 | Joined: Dec. 2011 | Days Active: 35 Join to learn more about liarble2014Virginia, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 127 | Points: 488
Quit trying to break up friendships and move on to ONE person that you genuinely care about. Guys are humans, people; they aren't objects to be tossed about and played with.
I guess ur right...bt im not trying to breakup friendships intentionally..lik its a longer story thoe
You will be intentionally breaking a friendship up if you keep pursuing it after I've told you the consequences.
Seriously. Move the fuck on and don't cause any stupid drama.
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7:43 am on July 2, 2012 | Joined: April 2006 | Days Active: 189 Join to learn more about iftyEngland, United Kingdom | StraightMale | Posts: 279 | Points: 2,226
If you truly think you could have a relationship with one of them then you should go for it. I just think if you truly had feelings for L then you wouldn't have broken it off with him and started chatting up his friend. As far as S is concerned, I think it was wrong of him to start chatting up a girl his friend was interested in. So that may show that he has bad character. If you were to get in a relationship with either of them it isn't your job to "break it" to the other. They are friends, whoever you choose will have to talk to the other about it. I think since you already broke it off with L, and you and S have already talked about a relationship, then you should go for S.
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