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Finding out where we stand

Replies: 11 — Last Post July 3, 2012 5:59pm by Piscium

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( Anonymous )

There's this guy I work with and I'm into him and he's into me, no question (he's been texting me nonstop for the last week, flirting with me, we've made out etc.) but we haven't talked about where we stand, like if we're together or not. I want to find out because I don't like being in-between. Should I just flat out ask him or what?

10:33 am on July 2, 2012

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I would ask what it is he wants from your guys' 'relationship'.

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Ask him.

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To me, it doesn't sound like you two are "together" at all. Flirting by text does not a boyfriend.

But, yes, I'm a big supporter of "just ask him". If you're confused then he likely is too. In my experience, taking the guesswork out of flirting is highly appreciated by guys.

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( Anonymous )

We've flirted by text and in person and we're together during most of our free time so it kind of feels like we're together or are at least on track to be together.

11:04 am on July 2, 2012

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If you want to be with him, you could try to do more relationship like things and see what his reaction is.
Try to hold his hand when your're hanging out (not at work). Or try cuddling with him. If he seems okay with those things then its prob a good sign that hes open to a relationship. Once you pick up on those signs casually bring up defining the relationship.

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( Anonymous )

Whenever he comes over to my room and we watch movies and stuff we hold hands and cuddle.

12:49 pm on July 2, 2012

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Have you guys tried going out on an actual date? Maybe you should start off by asking him out and go from there. Texting, flirting and cuddling doesn't constitute a relationship.

( Anonymous )

No, we haven't gone out on an actual date...we've just stayed in, much like couples do when they've been together for awhile.

1:01 pm on July 2, 2012

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what possible reasons do you have for not flat-out asking?

roseoverdose

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I guess you're in this process of getting to know each other and so, but well if you're in that confusing point where you're unsure where you're standing at, I think you'd better check it with him instead of wonder and expect for something else.
He might see it in a different way than you, but he might not.
Just try, nothing bad can happen, only helps you to figure things out :)

Piscium

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If he is texting you non stop, and you guys hold hands and cuddle; I think you should ask him. Maybe try to initiate a date, or try to steer the conversation towards the relationship. Why don't you want to flat-out ask him?

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