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"Questioning" isn't comfy.
Replies: 9 — Last Post July 6, 2012 8:40pm by willowchaneka
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As long as I can remember, I've found females attractive. But guys catch my eye too. However, I've only really been comfortable dating girls or doing anything beyond a kiss with them. I'm one who struggles with being unable to label myself, so I seek advice. Would it be wise to try something more with a guy? Or should I just stay in my comfort zone and consider myself a lesbian? Please be nice.

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Do whatever you want.

Your sexuality doesn't matter to us.

If you want to date guys, date guys. If not, then don't. Not that hard.

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Consider yourself label free. I don't really see what purpose a label serves anyhow- when it comes down to it, we are all simply human.
Try whatever it is that you want to try. Don't put any restraints or limitations on yourself.

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I think a bit of experimenting with men would do you good. Only do what makes you feel comfortable.
I don't really care much about sexuality. I like literally everyone, the entire gender spectrum, so I'm just like "whatever. It is what it is."  
This whole "questioning" thing isn't going to disappear unless you do something about it, you know?

Post edited at 7:06 pm on July 3, 2012 by BR0CONUT

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It's  all up to you how you want to be labeled.

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If you want to try just do it. I am sure it won't hurt much.

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Love is love. Date who you find attractive. Why bother trying to force a label on it?

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If you're comfortable, go try things. I encourage you to try things whilst you're young. You don't want to be that middle aged bloke looking for his first gay blowjob.

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Quote: from Natsy at 7:33 am on July 5, 2012
If you're comfortable, go try things. I encourage you to try things whilst you're young. You don't want to be that middle aged bloke looking for his first gay blowjob.

LOL. That's true. Better to try it now and be honest with yourself. There's really no harm in it. Don't be surprised if you try it and decide you like guys better. I think that's by far the healthier thing than to turn into some creeper like Natsy says.

Post edited at 9:07 am on July 5, 2012 by Jaguar

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willowchaneka


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I'm kind of the same way. Experiment more before you make a solid decision. And even if you can't, who cares what you are? Just be yourself and whoever catches your eye, guy or girl, flow with it.
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