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How old is to old?
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Replies: 13 — Last Post July 15, 2012 4:11pm by SMcN
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So i am a 19 yr old female. I was out the other day with some friends and this guy walks up to me with some of his friends and we hit it off pretty well. We found out that he lives in the same city I do. The problem is he is 32.
Should I go for it but be causious?
Should I go for it like normal
or
Should I throw away his number na forget him?

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That's the same age gap as me and my boyfriend.  For us it isn't a problem, but it really depends on you two and your personalities.  If you like him give it a go.
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i have gone on a few dates with a guy who is almost 40. i am 26. i think its a matter of perspective.

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Jaguar


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If you're 18 or over it doesn't matter. Go for it.

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If you like the guy try it. People who judge you on the difference should just get a life.

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As long as you're both of a legal age limit, it doesn't really matter
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roseoverdose


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Well that is a pretty big gap... people would say love has no age, and it might be true.  
Idk i guess it's different for each person.. I would say that for me it could be a pretty huge gap but I guess when there are feelings between the two then it doesn't really matter...
It's just about if you'd like to start dating with a 32 years old guy or not... I mean, for now he's that 32 years old guy... if you'd get to meet him a bit deeper it would change of course to the person himself.  
Anyhow - whole life ahead of you; you have so much to experience. This way or that way, nothing happens from trying, it's actually a pretty good stuff.  
Just try to wonder what's you're direction or just flow with the moment :)

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I'm 22, my boy is 32. It depends on personalities meshing. Age gaps like that can be an issue. Like, we're both in different stages of life. He's getting his PhD, I've barely started school. So when he moves to start his career I'll have to go with and that's a sacrifice. Just like he has to put up with my stupid 22 year old bitching, and I treat him like a jungle gym. He likes coupons, naps and he's greying. Partying isn't his thing anymore. We both FIT, though. So it works.

I say try it. It's great when it works.

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I'm suspicious about huge age gaps because a lot of the time a guy just wants to fuck someone young whose boobs still point North. But it's really up to you.

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Quote: from Natsy at 8:56 am on July 1, 2012
a guy just wants to fuck someone young whose boobs still point North.

Magnetic boobs?

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Quote: from Jaguar at 11:48 am on July 1, 2012
Quote: from Natsy at 8:56 am on July 1, 2012
a guy just wants to fuck someone young whose boobs still point North.

Magnetic boobs?


When I was 18 I had a 32 y/o gf and it was totally awesome but it didn't last. Guys aren't the only ones who want to fuck someone younger.

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go for it but be cautious.

evaluate his motivations while you're with him or talking to him.

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Natsy


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Quote: from Jaguar at 7:50 pm on July 1, 2012
Quote: from Jaguar at 11:48 am on July 1, 2012
Quote: from Natsy at 8:56 am on July 1, 2012
a guy just wants to fuck someone young whose boobs still point North.
 

 Magnetic boobs?

 
When I was 18 I had a 32 y/o gf and it was totally awesome but it didn't last. Guys aren't the only ones who want to fuck someone younger.

Yeah, I know. Women reach their sexual peak around 30 and men reach it around 18, so that relationship made sense from a purely physical POV.

My point was that men who fuck much younger women tend to be sleazy about it.

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go for it, better in real life than online
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