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4 year age gap
Replies: 19Last Post June 23, 2012 8:52am by joule
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Ok so my bf is 20 and I'm 16, this is totally legal in the state of NC which I where we live, however he is in the army, an the age of concent is 18. So if they found out he could get kicked out and probably go to jail and ruin his whole future, I really like him and I don't want him to ruin his life over me. It's not worth it, so should I break up with him or why should I do?


P.S. my parents think he's 18


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Is he so pathetic he can't find someone his own age?

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no just keep your mouth shut

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You're so stupid.

Just don't have sex with him, like fucking shit. It's not that hard.

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No he can pull people his own age, and regardless of we have sex or not he would get in trouble

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There are people married that are 10 years apart so I don't need your shit, I just want some legit advice

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Their advice IS legit.  You want to ruin the life of a soldier who is potentially going to risk his life for his country so you can have the freedom to have a dude fuck your horny ass.  Despicable.  Absolutely despicable.

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Quote: from Cosmo Brown at 9:56 pm on June 19, 2012

You want to ruin the life of a soldier who is potentially going to risk his life for his country so you can have the freedom to have a dude fuck your horny ass.
Quote: from BeautifulLies at 9:10 pm on June 19, 2012

So if they found out he could get kicked out and probably go to jail and ruin his whole future, I really like him and I don't want him to ruin his life over me. It's not worth it,
woops.

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It's a four-year age difference.  Big deal.  All "laws" relating to age and relationships are complete horseshit to me and I use every chance I get to rub it in the government's face.

Don't listen to anyone else in this thread, they're just under the influence of Western brainwashing for now.  They're going to tell you that "well, age gaps become less significant as one grows older, so a 30-year-old and a 40-year-old would click better than a 16-year-old would with a 20-year-old."

You're 16 years old, you have a mind of your own, you know it and I know it.  Now, everyone else would say some horseshit about 16-year-old girls are all stupid and don't know any better, mostly because they've been conditioned to follow Western sex-obsessed morality.  Most of the other people who replied, the people whose opinions you should ignore, are over sixteen, but not by much, because they still think ALL older guys ONLY want sex from younger girls and that there's no possible way that the relationship would bring stability to your life.

What do I think?  I think you should think for yourself; make up your own mind.  The others' opinions are not important, as they are mostly bullshit.

Say fuck the "law" and let your mind be free!

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first of all tell ur parents cuz if u lie to them and he brakes up with u ur on ur own cuz ur parents wont trust  u and for the army keep it to urself that ur 16 cuz yes he will get kicked out and yes he will go to jail trust me u want ur parents to know and for the love of god dont sleep with him!!!! if u do keep it to urself and dont tell anybody.

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So who's to call the cops?

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Quote: from 1i at 7:59 pm on June 19, 2012

Quote: from Cosmo Brown at 9:56 pm on June 19, 2012

You want to ruin the life of a soldier who is potentially going to risk his life for his country so you can have the freedom to have a dude fuck your horny ass.
Quote: from BeautifulLies at 9:10 pm on June 19, 2012

So if they found out he could get kicked out and probably go to jail and ruin his whole future, I really like him and I don't want him to ruin his life over me. It's not worth it,
woops.


If that sentiment were true she would not be having this dilemma.

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DO NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM ESPECIALLY OVER THIS

Have sex with him.  Whatever.  A rule like that is stupid and ridiculous and discriminatory, and it should be broken as much as possible.

Really, do what you want.  No one's going to even find out anyway.  Are you just looking for a reason to dump someone you're bored with?

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Quote: from Cosmo Brown at 4:27 am on June 20, 2012

Quote: from 1i at 7:59 pm on June 19, 2012

Quote: from Cosmo Brown at 9:56 pm on June 19, 2012

You want to ruin the life of a soldier who is potentially going to risk his life for his country so you can have the freedom to have a dude fuck your horny ass.
Quote: from BeautifulLies at 9:10 pm on June 19, 2012

So if they found out he could get kicked out and probably go to jail and ruin his whole future, I really like him and I don't want him to ruin his life over me. It's not worth it,
woops.


If that sentiment were true she would not be having this dilemma.

thats complete horseshit

but i guess thats to be expected from someone with your life experience

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Quote: from MorningStar at 11:29 pm on June 19, 2012

DO NOT BREAK UP WITH HIM ESPECIALLY OVER THIS

Have sex with him. Whatever. A rule like that is stupid and ridiculous and discriminatory, and it should be broken as much as possible.


So it'd also be okay for a 20 year old to have sex with a 15 year old? 14? 13? 12? 11?

You have to draw the line somewhere. The line just so happens to be 18, otherwise you'd have people arguing that if a few days before 18 is okay, then so should a week or two, then so should a month, etc.

Also yes, teenagers are stupid. I don't think anyone in their early to mid 20s (or later) will look back on everything they did from age 14-16 and think "Man I totally had all my shit together and knew exactly what I was doing." Usually it's something more along the lines of "How the fuck am I still alive?"

OP, you're 16. I'm not going to comment on your intelligence, but it's totally possible to not have a boyfriend and still be happy. You can say what you want about how stupid you think the law is... but it's the law. Driving 50 mph in a 30 mph zone, regardless of how open the road may be, is asking for a ticket. Blatantly defying a law is not the way to challenge it, because you're completely in the wrong.

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