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Is the guy older?

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yes by a year.

Post edited at 2:40 am on June 24, 2012 by iconoclast

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well, is it?

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I guess if hes a frat kid type, there's not much hope but you should just try anyway. If he's shy or something, sometimes people like that get shit friends because they're insecure and lonely.

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I don't think he is the frat type and he doesn't seem shy to me. But were not always together, so what I do see of him he seems normal to me.

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Hmm...well let me know how it goes. Just try to keep things calm above all else and make sure he knows you're not just suddenly cutting it off and you just want to work some things out.

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Okay I will. Thanks, I hope we can. Worse comes to worse he hates me.

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Least likely to hate you if you do it this way.

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I'll try, I just don't know how well it will work out because of his friends. They are extremely close and I don't want him to have to choose between us or feel like he has too.