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Is it time to break up?
Replies: 6Last Post May 22, 2012 12:36pm by CountryFighter
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Me and my bf have been together for 2 and a half years and it has defiantely been a struggle we are not the same at all it's very difficult
For me because mostly all my friends hate him because he makes me cry all the time as for me I am mostly just becoming bored with the relationship I feel like an old couple we never do anything fun he never surprises me or takes me out and I'm starting to feel like I can't keep waiting for change even though he keeps promising he will...on the other hand we've had so many good memory's in the past and I don't want to lose those but maybe I'm
Only holding on to the past or te fact that u don't want to see him with another girl ... How do I know if I should end it I don't want to regret my choice

1:04 am on May 22, 2012
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birdman101


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you can only know.don't let your friends make your decision or push you towards a decision.follow your heart and that inner voice. my ex still questions weather she should have listened to her friends. it made things very ugly.

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If he makes you unhappy, then I don't see a reason to stay. If things WERE good, but are not now, then you two have probably just grown into different people. You're young, you change. Just remember the good times, and let it end at that.

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i know exactly how you feel. i waited around with this non-commital guy for a year because i was afraid he'd immediately get with other girls when i left.
i think you should leave him if he's emotionally neglecting/abusing you enough to make you cry all the time. i wouldn't count on him changing any time soon, so... you should find someone better!

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Not enough information at all.

What's been a "struggle"? Why are you crying? You are bored because he never "surprises" you...how do you surprise him?

Regret is just something that you need to risk in life. Making choices out of fear is silly and won't make you happy. Staying with him because you don't want to see him with someone else is unhealthy. You should be with your partner because you want to be with your partner.

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that choice should be yours and only yours. you should look into yourself and ask youself if you still love him. And if you do, is it the right kind of love or is it just like friendship or a "he's like a brother" kinda love? If it's not, then it's probably time to end it. Also ask yourself if you are happy in this relationship and if you really do want to see a change in it or if you want to change and find someone new who is more your speed. And if that answer is that you are ready to find someone new and you don't want who you are with, then it's time to end it. That's all I can say... I hate to see people end long term relationships like that. It breaks my heart, but if there is nothing left of the relationship and it's mostly hurt feelings or just a bad, gloomy atmosphere, then there is not even a relationship there....

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Quote: from HottGurl at 12:29 pm on May 22, 2012

that choice should be yours and only yours. you should look into yourself and ask youself if you still love him. And if you do, is it the right kind of love or is it just like friendship or a "he's like a brother" kinda love? If it's not, then it's probably time to end it. Also ask yourself if you are happy in this relationship and if you really do want to see a change in it or if you want to change and find someone new who is more your speed. And if that answer is that you are ready to find someone new and you don't want who you are with, then it's time to end it. That's all I can say... I hate to see people end long term relationships like that. It breaks my heart, but if there is nothing left of the relationship and it's mostly hurt feelings or just a bad, gloomy atmosphere, then there is not even a relationship there....


Thats true in evry aspect

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