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I feel like i'm going to be single forever
Replies: 10Last Post April 24, 2012 7:32pm by ansdr
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I feel like i'm never gonna get a date. Never, the college I go to is small, the last day is tommorow. There were probably only 4 girls I was attracted to their, I talked to them and they all had boyfriends. There is no where to meet anyone, I tried talking to a few girls on facebook and none of them liked me at all. Gosh I must be really bad looking. It's normal for a girl not to like you that much at 1st, but not even willing to give you a date, that's just brutal.

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Well if I don't like you from the start I'm not going to lead you on with a date.

Honestly, if you stop focusing on finding one and start focusing on yourself it will happen sooner than you think. Dwelling on it is silly and pointless. What is a relationship going to do for you? Why do you want one?

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Quote: from Anonymice at 10:02 pm on April 22, 2012

Well if I don't like you from the start I'm not going to lead you on with a date.  

Honestly, if you stop focusing on finding one and start focusing on yourself it will happen sooner than you think. Dwelling on it is silly and pointless. What is a relationship going to do for you? Why do you want one?



Word.

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Well I want one so I can have sex with her, unless i'm just suppose to have sex with pillows. Alot of people say that's bad but going your whole without having sex, that's not healthy thinking.

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Wow, I never thought i'd grow up to be one of those "single" guys. You  hear about them and read about them but you just think if you make an  effort it won't end up being you. And here I am, fading into oblivion, i'm probably going to  die in some random accident, get in a car accident or something and die alone with no one at my funeral. Truth is a girl isn't just going to appear out of nowhere, i'm  going to be single forever. I can feel it. I don't even feel like doing  anything, just laying on the bed in disbelief in it all. Just wish I wasn't even on this earth, either that or I wish I wasn't attracted to women at all. I don't want it, it's caused me nothing but misery and i'm tired of trying. I don't know what i'm going to do. I just feel like giving up on everything, college, getting a job, just staying home and doing nothing. I'm tired of it all. I'm just so sick of it, and it never changes.  I just don't think I can take anymore to be honest. I mean how much can one guy take?

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Buy a hooker.

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It doesn't mean that much to me,
Sometimes I don't mean that much to you
And I don't even know what I'm hiding for...
And I don't even know what I'm crying for...

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I can't, i'm broke. I might be getting a job in 2 days, but still. Yeah that's probably a good idea. I'm just tired ya know, dating and getting a date should not have to be so complicated. And some of these girls are so confused about what they want. They don't understand sometimes it takes time for feelings to develop about someone. It's not instant like it is in the movies.

On top of that you have to deal with over protective parents, boyfriends which most have, a girls friends, how much money you have, all of her dealbreakers. Then you have to deal with your own issues and hopes that doesn't push her away. It's all just too much. And you would think that it's not that bad, but i'm starting to realize it is.

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confidence man...its all about how confident you are...a confident guy is confident for a reason...

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That's just no true birdman, if that were true I would have tons of girls by now. So would alot of other guys. The thing is even if it were it doesn't change anything. Sure you can be confident and get a certain type of girl, but is it the girl you want? The girl has to atleast like you for confidence to even mean anything. The truth is alot of these girls are confused, that have a long list of things they want in a guy, things they think they want. In an ideal world only confidence would matter, but we aren't living in an ideal world, that's what is getitng me down. Reality is an ugly thing. And reality of it is I could possibly be alone for the rest of my life.

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No! You're Not gonne be alone forever....don't be so negative....you're young and have along life ahead of you.....you're focusing on wanting to be with someone in a desparate kind of way....we're human and we weren't meant to be all alone.forever.....be patient ,it's starts with having friends and when you get a job you'll meet more people and it will happen for you.....i'm kind of going through the same thing right now,but i'm not getting down and out.....my friend tells me i'm too picky....and yes i am....get on a (free)dating site....and scroll through and look for what might be you're sweetheart...you know what you're looking for...and be bold....say what's on your mind in a nice way  of course...it doesn't take alot of money....just to meet at the park or a coffee shop ...(.i have 3 ladies i'm talking to right now.)....i'm taking my time ...you have the power of choice....be confident....(i don't think i'm the best looking guy)  you never know if u don't try.....God made you the man ...ur suppose to go hunt for her...and don't never give up no matter how many times u get turned down...eventually you'll get her!.......

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Well Thanks. Hey funny story, I ended up finding one of the girls who turned me down saying she had a boyfriend a week ago, today on a free dating website I was browsing. Turns out she doesn't really like black guys. :(

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