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The pill, girlfriend
Replies: 17Last Post April 6, 2012 3:19am by MelissaWalker11
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My gf has been feeling sick lately: headaches, nausea and light headedness and some stomach pain. She's now terrified that she's pregnant and I've to get a pregnancy test tomorrow.

She's been on the pill for almost two months. The first month, we had sex a lot with out condoms but I never came inside her. On her 7 day break from the pill, she got her period as expected. Now we've been using condoms again every time for the second month and they've always worked. There's been a few occasions where we've had sex without the condom for a little bit but then put one on but that's really nothing. WE had sex yesterday without a condom for the first time this month but I came on her back (not inside of course).

Like, even if she was pregnant (touch wood), she'd hardly be getting symptoms this early that bad? (around 15 days since period). She's begining to freak me out too and I've been looking up her symptoms and they all say early pregnancy but like, wtf? I'm so sure she's not because nothing failed and never came inside and she is on the pill and got her period only like a little while ago.

There was one time when I came in a condom inside her and then pulled out that there was white fluid around her vagina that I didnt know was my cum but I'm almost certain it wasnt because there was nothing leaking from the condom and I'm fairly sure it was hers.

Im thinking it could be side effects from the pill, because she tends to get headaches after taking it. When the pregnancy test prooves she's not tomorrow, I'm gonna ask her to come off or change the pill or maybe get a different type of contraceptive.

Have any of you ever experienced these symptoms with the pill? She's on microlite and was grand-ish the first month, tho she was scared she was pregnant then aswell until she got her period.

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The pill is meant to emulate pregnancy, it's highly plausible she is sensitive enough to have early symptons.

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Personally, I've never had any negative side effects from my BC pills, but her symptoms are pretty common side effects of them.

I think you're probably correct and she's jumping to conclusions. A pregnancy test is a great idea, as is contemplating a different BC method.

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Quote: from Spice at 8:50 am on April 4, 2012

The pill is meant to emulate pregnancy, it's highly plausible she is sensitive enough to have early symptons.

But if used correctly it has a ridiculously low fail rate, I mean we were a lot more adventurous the first month she was on it and she got her period. We've been a lot safer this month, I just can't see how she could be...

I know that people can be more sensitive to changes in the body and I know people do experience early onset symptoms but come on... Don't have me freaking out here...

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Quote: from JennyColada at 8:51 am on April 4, 2012

Personally, I've never had any negative side effects from my BC pills, but her symptoms are pretty common side effects of them.

I think you're probably correct and she's jumping to conclusions. A pregnancy test is a great idea, as is contemplating a different BC method.


I'm just really fuckin scared now   I'm only 20, halfway through college and I've no job, I can't afford a kid cause I'm in debt at the moment anyway and I don't want to go ruining anyone's life Ughhhh the next 24hours are gonna kill me and I've exams too and have to study through them, whyyyyyyy is life so fucking difficult

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Quote: from ar ais aris at 4:54 pm on April 4, 2012

Quote: from Spice at 8:50 am on April 4, 2012

The pill is meant to emulate pregnancy, it's highly plausible she is sensitive enough to have early symptons.

But if used correctly it has a ridiculously low fail rate, I mean we were a lot more adventurous the first month she was on it and she got her period. We've been a lot safer this month, I just can't see how she could be...

I know that people can be more sensitive to changes in the body and I know people do experience early onset symptoms but come on... Don't have me freaking out here...


I think you've completely misread what I'm saying

The pill emulates the symptoms of pregnancy, to usually prevent. Which is probably why she's exhibiting the symptoms.

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We're saying she's probably NOT pregnant

why are you freaking out???

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Quote: from Spice at 8:56 am on April 4, 2012

Quote: from ar ais aris at 4:54 pm on April 4, 2012

Quote: from Spice at 8:50 am on April 4, 2012

The pill is meant to emulate pregnancy, it's highly plausible she is sensitive enough to have early symptons.
 

 But if used correctly it has a ridiculously low fail rate, I mean we were a lot more adventurous the first month she was on it and she got her period. We've been a lot safer this month, I just can't see how she could be...  

 I know that people can be more sensitive to changes in the body and I know people do experience early onset symptoms but come on... Don't have me freaking out here...


I think you've completely misread what I'm saying

The pill emulates the symptoms of pregnancy, to usually prevent. Which is probably why she's exhibiting the symptoms.


Yup, I did, I took emulate as rival... my bad

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Quote: from Spice at 8:57 am on April 4, 2012

We're saying she's probably NOT pregnant

why are you freaking out???


I dunno, I hate this situation, I'll shut up

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Quote: from ar ais aris at 12:01 pm on April 4, 2012

Quote: from Spice at 8:57 am on April 4, 2012

We're saying she's probably NOT pregnant  

 why are you freaking out???


I dunno, I hate this situation, I'll shut up


Hey, don't worry about it! This is a pretty scary situation, and I can understand why you would be nervous. But try not to let it stress you out. You know her period can be delayed of she's stressed, right? That will only make you both more upset.

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So long as she is taking her pill correctly then there is no chance of pregnancy, even if you were not to use a condom

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Why are you worrying if you're using the pill AND condoms? seriously, you're worrying so much. most of the time you can have sex without ANY form of birth control and not get pregnant.

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Dude, 2 months on the pill, you can't expect a miracle.
her body has to get used to the pill and things have to process in time.

it's possible that  she might be pregnant, or she might be allergic to that pill. she might need the  depo shot.

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Quote: from ScoobieDoobie at 7:25 pm on April 4, 2012

Dude, 2 months on the pill, you can't expect a miracle.
her body has to get used to the pill and things have to process in time.

it's possible that she might be pregnant, or she might be allergic to that pill. she might need the depo shot.


Why do so many Americans rave about the shot.

There are a lot of other, and better choices than the shot -_-

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why are some people trying to scare this poor fella?

she's not pregnant. relax.

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