My roommate seems to be stuck in high school mode. She never leaves our room and the only people she talks to r her bffs on skype. She never goes out and she doesn't even talk to me or.our other 2 roommates. And she's very rude. She never contributes to the community items, like toilet paper, paper towels, soap,etc even though she uses it. She goes home every weekend too. I get going home once.in a while but y is she even here if she.goes 3 hrs away every weekend. Plus she doesn't have a car so she bums rides or makes her dad come get her and he always comments on our apt..."wow, dishes r piling up" sorry u come in the evening after we've eaten dinner and not gotten to them yet.
She seems so unhappy and I wonder if shes so miserable y she didn't request a room change. She'd have gotten one I know it.
------- We may never get to see each other, but I love him anyways
7:41 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: Mar. 2011 | Days Active: 337 Join to learn more about creditqueenMinnesota, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 1,079 | Points: 4,551
I never realised people said bff in real life. I thought it was just an internet joke.
7:42 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: Jan. 2009 | Days Active: 112 Join to learn more about Cunt MuffinScotland, United Kingdom | StraightMale | Posts: 1,469 | Points: 397
Quote: from Cunt Muffin at 10:42 pm on Jan. 28, 2012
I never realised people said bff in real life. I thought it was just an internet joke.
Are you serious?
Are you high?
7:43 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: Jan. 2009 | Days Active: 112 Join to learn more about Cunt MuffinScotland, United Kingdom | StraightMale | Posts: 1,469 | Points: 397
Quote: from Cunt Muffin at 10:42 pm on Jan. 28, 2012
I never realised people said bff in real life. I thought it was just an internet joke.
Are you serious?
Are you high?
I wish.
Makes a change from usual.
7:44 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: Jan. 2009 | Days Active: 112 Join to learn more about Cunt MuffinScotland, United Kingdom | StraightMale | Posts: 1,469 | Points: 397
I would try to get something done yourself, or have a SERIOUS talk with her.
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7:47 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: Nov. 2011 | Days Active: 118 Join to learn more about Amaya IkariFlorida, United States | BisexualFemale | Posts: 79 | Points: 1,272
That's not high school mode, that's depressed. I would know, I've been there. Speaking from my experience of living with 3 people I didn't relate to or like all that much. There was a lot of bad blood in the way that one of them treated me specifically, she'd be blubbly and sweet with the other two but when we would be in the same room alone she'd be quiet and not even try to talk to me no matter how much I tried to talk to her (I eventually gave up, cause I wasn't going to waste my breath). The other two were nice when I would be alone with them, but put the 3 of them together and I would be one step away from murder. Also, they always seemed to hang out together but they wouldn't invite me to do anything with them even though my door would be always open and I was trying to be nice to them all...
She probably has put in for a room change but the residence people just can't do it right now. I know when I put in for a change of room, I didn't tell any of them that I was leaving til the day I moved out. One gave me a hug, another said bye and the bitchy one hid in her room til I was gone.
------- "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt."
7:48 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: April 2010 | Days Active: 1,044 Join to learn more about Sine Labore NihilNova Scotia, Canada | Label FreeFemale | Posts: 19,605 | Points: 40,326
Maybe high school mode wasn't the best term, but she seems to think that it was the high point. It's not normal to be that anti-social after.being in college for a couple of years. She and I were closer and I'd invite her to hang out with me but she'd just stay in. Which is whatever but there's just something about her that reminds me of the girls from my high school who couldn't get out of that mindset.
------- We may never get to see each other, but I love him anyways
8:02 pm on Jan. 28, 2012 | Joined: Mar. 2011 | Days Active: 337 Join to learn more about creditqueenMinnesota, United States | StraightFemale | Posts: 1,079 | Points: 4,551
I agree with Sine Labore Nihil on the depressed part. And the thing is... you're assuming a room change would solve her problem. What makes you think that it's the people she's living with that's causing her problems? Maybe she's extremely homesick? Maybe she has a bf back where she used to be and that's why she wants to go back all the time so badly? I mean, it may have nothing to do with being roommates. She may just be miserable where she's at right now, and that means there isn't much you can do other than try and integrate her into the location she's at...
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I never realised people said bff in real life. I thought it was just an internet joke.
