I dont agree with him on everything but that doesnt mean that everything he writes should be interpreted as nasty.

What happened really?

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But there would have been more incidences. He wouldn't have been banned for a once-off event.

Post edited at 3:21 am on Oct. 19, 2010 by Bud2400

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To my understanding, he was banned for making this reply in this topic.  Please correct me if I'm wrong.

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That was the last straw, correct.

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From a distance you look like my friend,

even though we are at war.

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That was the last straw, correct.

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Care to explain how exactly his question could be construed as "insensitive"?  The OP's friend's response is very unusual from someone who she considered a genuine friend - an inquiry as to how exactly she told him about her being raped is both on topic and appropriate as the information could give a clearer picture to any person reading the topic.

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Quote: from Spice at 3:22 am on Oct. 19, 2010

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That was the last straw, correct.

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Care to explain how exactly his question could be construed as "insensitive"? The OP's friend's response is very unusual from someone who she considered a genuine friend - an inquiry as to how exactly she told him about her being raped is both on topic and appropriate as the information could give a clearer picture to any person reading the topic.

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is there any situation, any at all, in which you could imagine a girl describing being raped and a guy saying that, and it not being grossly inappropriate from a normal point of view? really now.

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Also I dont get why it was considered non contribution. I mean it was totally on topic. am i missing something?

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is there any situation, any at all, in which you could imagine a girl describing being raped and a guy saying that, and it not being grossly inappropriate from a normal point of view? really now.

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It's possible if it were a case if she were at a party with a boyfriend, both got drunk, her friend was also there, and they went to be alone and it turned out she was raped; then later, being too embarrassed to tell anyone about it, she covers herself by just telling everybody nothing happened. Thus her friend just figures they had consensual sex and that her coming out with it is an attempt on her part to smear his name for who knows what reason.

But in all honesty, I just made that up off the top of my head. You wanted a potential scenario, so I gave you one. Knowing the details you'd receive from a response to Abs' question would allow an individual to respond to the OP in a more appropriate way than before. This is especially true if there was some kind of misunderstanding or anything involved.

Simply because you ask the OP a question like that does not mean you doubt she was raped in any way whatsoever.

Post edited at 3:37 am on Oct. 19, 2010 by Bud2400

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Quote: from jakelong at 3:31 am on Oct. 19, 2010

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Also I dont get why it was considered non contribution. I mean it was totally on topic. am i missing something?

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Emotion.

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It was on College Sexuality. They have forums for sensitivity. Abs just asked a question.

It is a pity, I liked abs.

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Just one note could make me float, could make me float away.
One note from the song she wrote could **** me where I lay.

i mean its true that abs can be nasty in politics and race forums and dtrm. but he wasnt in that forum.

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"Everyone helpin' each other whenever they can we makin' it
happen, from nothin' to somethin' That's how we be survivin'" - BEP