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When will I stop having these gay feelings
Replies: 23Last Post Oct. 8, 2010 8:56pm by abercrombieboy15
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I don't understand why I have them.

I don't understand what I can't just be straight.

I WANT TO BE A STRAIGHT GUY

This is ruining my life. I feel so isolated, like im living in a bubble. Why do I have to be different. Why does it have to be me? Why can't it be those jerks at school?

Why do they get it easy but I have inner hell?


10:51 am on Oct. 7, 2010
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You were born gay,now embrace it.Seriously and I'm not being sarcastic or mean.

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You likely will never have your homosexual feelings fade away, to be completely honest. Just because you want to be straight doesn't mean that you are going to be straight. You are who you are and accepting that simple fact that you are capable of having romantic feelings towards men is simply the first step of stepping out of the bubble.

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Because life isn't fair.

You will only be happy if you learn to accept your sexuality and make the best of it. A lot of things you get in life you can't change, so you need to learn to make them into something good.

Do throw me a message if you want to talk further. I definitely know what you're going through. I went through it from when I was 14 all the way until I was 17.

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only one way to get thru it

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You can't pick your family but, you don't have to like all them either!!

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High school blows if you're not straight.  That doesn't mean that the rest of your life is going to suck just because you're bisexual/gay.  You get out of high school, people stop caring so much about what you're "supposed to be" and you are free to live your life the way YOU want to live it.

Yeah it's difficult now but there isn't anything wrong with you.  You are who you are.  

And everyone is different.  I've talked about being gay with my mom before and she always tells me she can't understand why people get so upset when they find that their kids are.  There are 100000 worse things that could be "wrong" about you that are worse than being gay.  

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Quote: from Ecstatic Process at 10:53 am on Oct. 7, 2010

Because life isn't fair.

You will only be happy if you learn to accept your sexuality and make the best of it. A lot of things you get in life you can't change, so you need to learn to make them into something good.

Do throw me a message if you want to talk further. I definitely know what you're going through. I went through it from when I was 14 all the way until I was 17.


I want to run away from home


10:57 am on Oct. 7, 2010
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Why specifically do you not want to be gay?

Why do you think that these feelings isolate you so much from everyone else?

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but it is interpretable otherwise,
it has no meaning behind it, but countless meanings.
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You should accept how actually normal homosexuality and bisexuality are. Luckily, you're living in a time when sexuality is a more open subject, and different lifestyles are finally seen as culturally acceptable, rather than an oddity.

Unfortunately, not everyone has come to this realization, so there still are people who will treat you terrible, especially in high school. But, no one should change who you are or put fear into you because of it. Nothing's wrong with being gay or bisexual. Everything wrong is with the bigots in world who can't accept what they do not understand..

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Quote: from Ecstatic Process at 1:53 pm on Oct. 7, 2010

Because life isn't fair.

Shit happens. You have to learn to live with it.

I wish I could have a socially accepted sexuality, too, but I don't.

You'll adapt.

Post edited at 11:05 am on Oct. 7, 2010 by Mieux


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Quote: from vividreams at 1:52 pm on Oct. 7, 2010

You were born gay,now embrace it.Seriously and I'm not being sarcastic or mean.
Or there is this magical thing called morbid curiosity most young males get late in highschool an early college years. That does fade an hey you have gay feelings. So no you're not exactly right here feelings do fade in time as long as it is just curiosity vs. actually being gay.

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you just have to learn to accept yourself


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just enjoy them and do stuff

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You can't pick your family but, you don't have to like all them either!!

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Quote: from Mieux at 1:59 pm on Oct. 7, 2010

Quote: from Ecstatic Process at 1:53 pm on Oct. 7, 2010

Because life isn't fair.

Shit happens. You have to learn to live with it.

I wish I could have a social accepted sexuality, too, but I don't.

You'll adapt.


Weirdly enough, I actually like it and wouldn't change it for anything.

It's made me a much stronger and better person.

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Quote: from Wilder at 10:57 am on Oct. 7, 2010

Why specifically do you not want to be gay?

Why do you think that these feelings isolate you so much from everyone else?


Why? Because I don't want to be abnormal. Everyone else is straight...


11:09 am on Oct. 7, 2010
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