Honestly, though, don't hold a grudge and he'll think you're awesome. Sometimes, people just aren't in the mood and they shouldn't be "punished" for it - whether they're a man or woman.

tk

Post edited at 6:48 am on April 14, 2008 by tkster

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"Fi mutationem vis videre." ~ Ghandi

Cum ultimus sol noster occiderit, in morte usque dormiemus.

The longer the two of you date, the more you'll notice this.  Sex is a great, and most everyone who does it right will usually enjoy it and want to do it often - but that doesn't mean people want to do it every single chance they get, no matter when, or where.  Don't let yourself over think something as trivial and normal as this.

Put yourself in his shoes.  Are you always ready for sex?  What about when he is, are you always ready to have sex just because he's ready?  Probably not, so is it really fair for you to expect him to be willing to have sex every time you're ready to have sex?  Of course it isn't fair, and it should never be expected.

Also, you have to take into consideration why he may have said no.  Perhaps he has realized that typically sex is better in certain locations, or time apart from the last time y'all had sex.  Maybe is is preferring to have sex somewhere besides the car?  Maybe he wants to wait until tomorrow so both of you enjoy it more?  

There's just a lot of reasons why someone would not feel up to having sex - but girls sometimes automatically associate that not feeling up to sex feeling to the guy not being sexually attracted to her, or something.  That isn't it, I'm fairly sure, so just chalk this up to a normal sexual behavior, and move along. :)