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For the first time in a while, I've taken someone under my wing a little, and I've got them talking.

We've broken down a few things, and as soon as we start getting somewhere, today I sign on to find a message from him, and his account closed.

His reason? "You were getting too close, and starting to understand. That scares me. Bye now." More or less it.


Was that not the point in us talking?




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Aw, that sucks... especially since it's the first time in a while. But remember, not all members are like this. Just because this attempt wasn't successful doesn't mean ones in the future won't be.

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Quote: from xoxo1234 at 12:50 pm on April 14, 2008

Aw, that sucks... especially since it's the first time in a while. But remember, not all members are like this. Just because this attempt wasn't successful doesn't mean ones in the future won't be.
Oh I know. But it's just nice to feel like your getting somewhere with people, you know?

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Yeah i know that can be frustrating, ah well, it's in God's hands now.

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I know the feeling, I really do. But he can't get help, or have people get close to him, until he's ready for that. Clearly, he was not. I also think that maybe, before he lets people get so close to him, he's got a few personal things he has to work through on his own. Then, maybe, he'll feel comfortable enough to have people get so close to him. You DID get somewhere with him though, I'm absolutely sure of it. You've made an impact on him, and how he sees himself. That's a really big thing for you to have done. Really positive on his behalf too, I'm sure.

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Quote: from amiee at 1:25 pm on April 14, 2008

I know the feeling, I really do. But he can't get help, or have people get close to him, until he's ready for that. Clearly, he was not. I also think that maybe, before he lets people get so close to him, he's got a few personal things he has to work through on his own. Then, maybe, he'll feel comfortable enough to have people get so close to him. You DID get somewhere with him though, I'm absolutely sure of it. You've made an impact on him, and how he sees himself. That's a really big thing for you to have done. Really positive on his behalf too, I'm sure.
You played your own part though really. I just pushed and pushed at him. But the wall broke, and I could view how he saw things.

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Quote: from Blank black at 12:41 pm on April 14, 2008

His reason? "You were getting too close, and starting to understand. That scares me. Bye now." More or less it.  

He sounds like you, don't you think?

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Quote: from sunshineshower at 7:08 pm on April 14, 2008

Quote: from Blank black at 12:41 pm on April 14, 2008

His reason? "You were getting too close, and starting to understand. That scares me. Bye now." More or less it.  

He sounds like you, don't you think?


Hardly. If anything I get too emotionally involved.

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Ah, I hate it when I get involved. Makes me feel bad when what I tell them doesn't work, or makes things worse. I once was talking to someone who was suicidal, and their Internet connection died for 5 minutes. My heart dropped during those 5 minutes.

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He sounds like a wanker.

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Eh, some people are like that. You can't force people to open upto you unless they are ready.

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You can't win them all, unfortunately.

They don't know what to do, yet when someone helps, they are scared of the change, and hide from it.

It's disappointing, I must agree, to know that after everything, it doesn't help. I've dealt with it, she was in need of help, I offered it any way I could, but even after me helping, she kept saying 'Nothing you say is going to help'

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Doesn't matter.

He's back

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Quote: from Blank black at 3:34 am on May 1, 2008

Doesn't matter.

He's back




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Quote: from Blank black at 8:34 am on May 1, 2008

Doesn't matter.

He's back


Woo, awesome!

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