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Replies: 14 Last Post May 2 1:00pm by Nikki
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Quote: from xoxo1234 at 12:50 pm on April 14, 2008
Aw, that sucks... especially since it's the first time in a while. But remember, not all members are like this. Just because this attempt wasn't successful doesn't mean ones in the future won't be. 
Oh I know. But it's just nice to feel like your getting somewhere with people, you know?
------- 'Love is, like, really important. It's good to be loved. Even if it's only for one night.'
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ImSoHappy
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Yeah i know that can be frustrating, ah well, it's in God's hands now.
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amiee
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I know the feeling, I really do. But he can't get help, or have people get close to him, until he's ready for that. Clearly, he was not. I also think that maybe, before he lets people get so close to him, he's got a few personal things he has to work through on his own. Then, maybe, he'll feel comfortable enough to have people get so close to him. You DID get somewhere with him though, I'm absolutely sure of it. You've made an impact on him, and how he sees himself. That's a really big thing for you to have done. Really positive on his behalf too, I'm sure.
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Quote: from amiee at 1:25 pm on April 14, 2008
I know the feeling, I really do. But he can't get help, or have people get close to him, until he's ready for that. Clearly, he was not. I also think that maybe, before he lets people get so close to him, he's got a few personal things he has to work through on his own. Then, maybe, he'll feel comfortable enough to have people get so close to him. You DID get somewhere with him though, I'm absolutely sure of it. You've made an impact on him, and how he sees himself. That's a really big thing for you to have done. Really positive on his behalf too, I'm sure. 
You played your own part though really. I just pushed and pushed at him. But the wall broke, and I could view how he saw things.
------- 'Love is, like, really important. It's good to be loved. Even if it's only for one night.'
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iwashere85
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Ah, I hate it when I get involved. Makes me feel bad when what I tell them doesn't work, or makes things worse. I once was talking to someone who was suicidal, and their Internet connection died for 5 minutes. My heart dropped during those 5 minutes.
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ElephantStone
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He sounds like a wanker.
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Nikki
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Eh, some people are like that. You can't force people to open upto you unless they are ready.
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11:28 am on April 22, 2008 | Joined Dec. 2002 | 1282 Days Active Join to learn more about Nikki England, United Kingdom | Straight Female | 14902 Posts | 38440 Points
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Tavis
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You can't win them all, unfortunately. They don't know what to do, yet when someone helps, they are scared of the change, and hide from it. It's disappointing, I must agree, to know that after everything, it doesn't help. I've dealt with it, she was in need of help, I offered it any way I could, but even after me helping, she kept saying 'Nothing you say is going to help'
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5:10 pm on April 30, 2008 | Joined Dec. 2006 | 352 Days Active Join to learn more about Tavis Ontario, Canada | Straight Male | 11352 Posts | 15948 Points
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