You'd think that at 29 he's be grown up. That was a reason to be a bit upset but, hey, you put in the time and you had the remote first. He should have been disappointed, not upset. By next morning he should have forgotten it. Does he usually use that kind of language on you and get mad for no good reason? If not, there may be something else going on in the background that is upsetting him and he's just taking it out on you. I hope there are no dogs around to kick.
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A Parent, old geezer, and occasionally right. Good judgment comes from bad
experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.