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cross dressing
Replies: 3Last Post April 17 3:39pm by kendall716
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Can someone please give me some advice.My problem is that I love to dres up in my older sisters clothes.Not just her dresses but underwear,stockings the lot.I do it in the privacy of my bedroom but I am scared of being caught.Please give advice

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Hey.

Everyone likes to do weird things, both in a sexual context and a non-sexual context. If you like to dress up in women's clothes, then I can guarantee that you're not the only one who does.

Do you have a problem with liking this? Do you want to stop?

The only thing I can really recommend without knowing that is that you buy yourself some female clothes of your own. Whatever your sister's attitude to your hobby might be, I have a feeling that she wouldn't be too impressed with you wearing her clothes, simply because they're hers. Go to a large department store and find some: if you're having trouble, ask a member of staff and pretend you're buying for your girlfriend.

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First of all, let me say this isn't sick, and it isn't wrong. It doesn't necessarily mean you want to be a woman, or that you are gay, so don't fret about that.

There isn't a whole lot I can suggest you do, apart from being honest to yourself, and to who you are. Whilst lots of people will not understand your needs or your enjoyment, many more can and will. This isn't the end of the world, nor does it change who you are as a person. If you wanted to continue like that you would be permanently entitled to go around every day dressed like that.

You may have seen a programme about the paratrooper in the UK who had a sex change to become a woman. I know this isn't necessarily what you want to do, but I wanted to highlight the acceptance there is. Jan- her name- lives not far from where I do, and to say we are quite a conservative area is quite fair. Whilst many people round here don't understand why she made her decisions, they do understand that she has made her decisions, and they don't harm anyone. She isn't judged.

Nor should you be.

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Hey there,

I would like to begin by saying that it sounds to me that you are simply confused with your sexuality. There is nothing sick about this and people go through this every day. Identity crisis's are fairly common [even among people whom aren't homosexual] so you are going to be okay. I'm sure if I were your sister, though; I would feel a bit uncomfortable if I discovered my brother was wearing my undergarments and dresses. Perhaps you should purchase your own cross-dressing attire. Everyone has their own unique fetish.

Save up some money and go to a thrift shop. You are less likely to A) see anyone that you know, and B) have anyone care to question. Just go purchase your own private stock of clothing to wear when no one else is home.

What happens if you're caught?

Well then you are caught. Maybe that would be a good time to be open with both others and yourself. If you really don't want anyone else but the person who has caught you to know about your past time, sit him/her down and explain how important it is that it remains a secret. If they love you; they should understand and comply to your feelings.

Do you think that you could possibily be honest with your family about this? If you are willing to be up front and admit that you enjoy cross-dressing this would immediately get the shock factor out of the way. After all, how would you rather your family find out

  • Come home to their son/brother dressed in women's clothing
  • Be sat down and have things explained to them by their son/brother.

    It all really is up to what you are comfortable with, though.

    I'm sure that there are support sites open for people with simaler fears as yours. You should google some cross-dressing forums and see what other people with this same fetish have to say to you about it. After all, the best advice comes from those who are actually in the situation.

    If you really don't feel comfortable opening up to your family; you should consider only cross-dressing in the privacy of a place you know they will not be.

    I hope everything works out for you.

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