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Boyfriend wants a 3some..
and I don't totally hate the idea
Replies: 23 — Last Post Mar. 21 11:03am by Ice318
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nik1


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What he is really saying is (a) You no longer satisfy his fantasies (b) just the beginning of more kinky sex (c) His sexual needs are more important than yours.

Most girls that would agree to this believe that they will lose their bf unless they agree to all he wants.

If you truly would be turned on by it then do it but don't be shocked if it turns into something else.

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Lillylove


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Threesomes can be a fun time. You and your bf must agree that there is nothing romantic about it, that it is just sexual games and  experimentation. Personally, I don't like ffm and much prefer mmf. I like  to see them compete and one of them is usually up. It isn't for everyone but since I like anal, I like the DP aspect.
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xcutioners


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No. Don't do it.

To me, it seems like he's just in FOR SEX, not RELATIOnSHIP

What a douche... get rid of him =/

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i wouldnt suggest against this idea, unless you have a pretty secure relationship it can make partners feel jelous etc
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Squibble


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Girl, honestly? Been there, done that unfortunately... It will NOT end well as you two are in a relationship and because you're not a time-tested couple. That sort of experimentation is best with people you DON'T have emotional ties to!
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ultima171


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go for it but tell him you want to have a 3some with another guy. ill be the other guy!  lol. seriously, try it but if you have any doubts don't. and make sure he is serious about "not having sex with her and not gettin her number" just be careful with the whole situation. hey if it doesn't work with him, you and your friend can both blow me... lol
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TigressaLynnMae


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It doesn't hurt to experiment.

I've never had a threesome, but I'd do it, if my guy allowed/asked for it.

But it would depend on the third party. IF it were a girl, I'd probably want to pick her out, b/c I get jealous easily. And if it were a guy, I'd probably let him pick out the guy, for he gets jealous easier.



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Quote: from WigAOK9 at 6:02 pm on May 18, 2008
it sounds like a bat idea in your case! very bad
Agreed, not only does it diminish the intimacy within the relationship, but if you have to worry about the faithfulness of your partner beforehand, why tempt it?

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Ice318


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you might enjoy it. I had a threesome with my boyfriend and another girl (sex included) and it was really fun. I have NEVER felt a moment of jealousy over it.

... and tonight we might do it with another guy for the first time! yes!

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