Hi guys, Ok so im a 17 year old straight male, who my two best friends are female,One who used to go out with one of my better male friends ( not anymore) - who we shall call Carly and the other who has a boyfriend, who we shall call Erin, Im alot closer to carly as shes the only friend i have who i can really talk to about things, shes a great fun, caring and loving friend, a friend who i could probably never find anywhere else, and erin, who again is a great friend, who i see as my best friend too, the three of us hang out at lunch, around school, and at weekends, Recently Erin has been beign weird towards myself, normaly we text each iother everyday even though we see each other, maybe 10 + texts a day, but recently nothign from her, no messages on the socal networking sites, nothing, Only in person, and she seems to be acting odd, Latley she has not been comming to lunch with us as much and it just seems really odd,
Today she told me she was told by someone that myself and carly had a 'thing' and wanted to know if it was true, Now i dont have a thing for carly and we dotn have a thing going on! Were just really really good friends, why cant people not understand thta a guy can be great friends with a girl without having to be in some sort of relationship.. Anyway i told her we didnt and she said she thinks or thought we did, Note this was over Msn, She replied with minimum response and was very quiet... i sked her who told her and she said she coulnd tell.. ? some friend eh ?
ANyway,it just seems liek somethings going to go wrong, Nothings going on between myseklf and carly, andi perosnaly think this is going to casue friction between us all,
Should i tel l carly what erin said to me ? and just laugh it off since its actualy not true ? Will this casue unease between myself and carly ? will it casue friction between us and erin ? i really dont knwo what i should do, should i take it further into descussion with erin ? and afain should i bring it to the attention of carly ?
I really dont know what to do, as i dont want to lose any of my two best friends over somethign that people have just ' thought up'
Thanks for readign this, and i hope you can have time to reply.
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Post edited at 9:06 am on May 3, 2008 by L m6968