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short answer no

long answer no and go fuck yourself... no I'm totally serious go try masturbating it's easy... and I've never heard of a girl bleeding from it

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I've bled from it. =/ but thats only cuz i had kinda long nails and got a lil too rough. =/

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yumilicious betch ;]

The good part about it is that it doesn't have to be an awful experience.  If you are ready and mature enough to handle it, and the man you are with is ready and mature enough to handle it - it may be mildly uncomfortable, but it won't be an awful experience by any means.  There are little tricks and things you can do it make it much more of an enjoyable experience for you when you are ready.

Make sure the lines of communication between you and the person you're with are open - that's probably the most important thing.  You have to be able to tell him what hurts, what doesn't, and what you want from him at that particular time.  If he's anyone you should be with, he will respect that completely, and listen the entire time.

The pain will be present, of course.  But, with proper build up to the actual act (and I won't get too much into that, please post a new topic with regards to that if you wish) can go over without much pain.  There are ways to get you more comfortable with the situation, and prepare for the actual intercourse of it all.

Blood may also be present, but it won't be as much as you might picture.  Some girls do not bleed at all, while some do.  That's all part of it, and if he's intelligent, he will be expecting it to happen, and will handle it like a mature young man.

These little concerns are common, trust me on that.  You should, however, start getting comfortable with your own body, and the best way to do that is through masturbation.  It's a good way to learn yourself, so don't deprive yourself of something that can be a great learning experience.  It isn't fair to you, or the guy you'll be with one day.

Things will be fine, I'm sure. :)

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i wonder though,  i would feel kind of embarrised if i bled the first time... would the guy mind?

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If you find the right one then he probably wont.  Some guys are jerks but you never know.

There are a lot of factors that go into this.  First of all, you can work yourself  into it.  Try playing around down there, it's natural to do, and you can't harm yourself.  Just keep opening it up with your fingers, start using tampons, etc.  

Another factor is how big the guy is.  If the guy has a large penis, and you go kinda hard then it will hurt a bit and it might bleed a little.

When you find a guy that you really like, don't go right to sex.  Work into it.  Have him finger you a bit himself and you can get used to the feeling.  Don't jump right into it.  If you want more help in this area like positions etc, then message me.

Don't be scared of masturbation.  You can stop if it gets to be painful, and you know your body better than any guy does.  You will naturally not do anything harmful.  

Sexuality is a wonderful part of life.  Start experimenting yourself.  You say you are waiting, so you can do a lot of reading as well as self inspection to make sure you are ready when you finally make that decision.

-Shaun

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