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 Replies: 9 — Last Post June 21, 2008 5:48pm by jda
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So a couple of months ago my friend told me she purged her food, but not every day (not that I believe that but still). We were really drunk, so since then I've pretended I didn't remember, and she obviously hasn't brought it up. She doesn't look like she's bulimic, and she's by no means at all overweight. Her body is curvy, looks hot in clothes, everything - but she still thinks she needs to lose weight. She always says things like "guys only like girls who are little and skinny and that they can pick up easily". Almost everything she talks about is weight and appearance, and a lot of the time judges other people and calls them "fat" or "they're getting really chunky". If she didn't have this problem she wouldn't be saying these mean things about other people. Anyways, what I need help is that every time she talks about being skinny I get really furious, and I think it's because I feel like I can't do anything about it. A lot of the times when I'm at her house she'll say she's going to the bathroom and be there for literally 20 minutes. I hear her swishing mouth wash around sometimes, and even gagging. I don't know what to do. She locks the door, and I know if I confronted her it would extremely awkward, and I'm terrible at handling awkward situations. What should I do? Our whole group of friends know because it's pretty obvious, but we all don't know what to do. Why do I feel that fury towards her? Is there anything we can say? And we can't tell her mom, she's one of the reasons why. Fuck this is long, sorry. Post edited at 6:45 pm on June 21, 2008 by Anonymous
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Natsy
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just be there for her, you can't force her to change xx
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1:41 pm on June 21, 2008 | Joined: Oct. 2007 | Days Active: 448
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annihilate me
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Confront her is the only way to do it.
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You can have me scarred and alive or blemish free and dead.
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PAOlivia
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be there for her and get her help she has disease
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1:58 pm on June 21, 2008 | Joined: June 2008 | Days Active: 11
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PinkLotus
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Ask her how she would feel without teeth. Constant purging leaves acid on the teeth, deteriorating them and in the end, they need to be removed. Also, it causes the throat's lining to be damaged, so she may cause holes.
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ajakana
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I'm skinny and hate it she shouldent be acting like that you need to sit her down and yell at her tell her shed pretty in all the clothes she wears and if she was skinny she would look horrible I think your a good friend and she needs to get a grip on herself its making you mad because she's not even thinking about her friends date the damn girls geez she needs help I don't like my skinny ass self and people always tell me to eat more or you need to gain weight and no guys don't like skinny girls just because they can pick us up doesn't mean they like us more she's got a wrong mind to think like that guys perfer girls like her with curves I wish I had some take her around a very skinny person and ask her do you really want to look like that? Do you really think she doesn't get teased you must be crazy being skinny is not sexy at all I hate being skinny but once I have a baby ill be happy as shit the only reason I can't gain weight is because I have anemia from losing a baby but to those who are skinny and want to gain weight trust me you have to eat 3meals a day and only one snack 5meals is actually gonna make you lose weight breakfeast,lunch,and dinner is good plus a good nites sleep and a snack before bed works also exercise 2times outta the week and next week just play an activity outside that's how I gained weight before and I'm gonna do it again pm me if anybody wants help on how to gain weight I know where you come from and to your friend make her feel sexy while she's curvy keep telling her nice things and tell her you like her body shell eventually stop and listen to you tell her she doesn't wanna become an anorexic cause that's a disease and they'll put her in a hospital to gain weight back so tell he shed better accept how god made her and stop acting like a big baby
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keep saying to her like eughh too skinny people look horrible and stuff. compliment her a lot i really dont no what else to tell because if she doesnt want the help and you try to help she will pull more and more away from you. 
